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Old 12-16-2012, 09:06 PM
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Life is too short to waste in a dead end relationship. For each perspn involved. Do both yourselves a favor....

Seriously. What is holding you back?
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Old 12-17-2012, 04:40 AM
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In opera, is not over until the fat lady sings... here is a group of them, listen to their words..."It's Over"..."It's Over"..."Fa, La, La, La, La"!

Time to stop hoping and get about the business of living your life, it will soon be a New Year, make your 2013 one of peace & happiness, you can do it!
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Old 12-17-2012, 04:57 AM
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MsTrust, I used music to help me. Do you have any songs that makes you feel good and strong?? I loved this one....maybe this one will help you get started. I used to crank the music in my house and just dance around, (My neighbors probably thought I was completely nuts, they just had no real idea, lol). Just know, we are all cheering for you and we all have faith in you. We can see your worth, strength and a future with happiness and self love...even though you may not just yet!!

I Can See Clearly Now (Lyrics) - YouTube
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Old 12-17-2012, 11:01 AM
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Yeah, music's healing. This is what helped me:

Sister Hazel - 15 - Thank You (DVD) - YouTube
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Old 12-17-2012, 11:21 AM
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Music! Great idea! That is one of my great escapes - and helps reinforce me when I'm feeling weak.

Tim McGraw - Angry All the Time: (here are some of the lyrics)

The reasons that can't stay,dont have have a thing to do with being in love.
And I understand that lovin a man should have to be this rough.
You ain't the only one who feels like this worlds left you far behind.
I dont know why you gotta be angry all the time

Or - one of my favorites - Evanscence - Call Me When You're Sober: (again - lyrics)

Don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me, come find me
Make up your mind

Should have let you fall and lose it all
So maybe you can remember yourself
Can't keep believing, we're only deceiving ourselves
And I'm sick of the lie and you're too late

Couldn't take the blame, sick with shame
Must be exhausting to lose your own game
Selfishly hated, no wonder you're jaded
You can't play the victim this time and you're too late


You never call me when you're sober
You only want it 'cause it's over, it's over
How could I have burned paradise?
How could I? You were never mine

So don't cry to me, if you loved me
You would be here with me
Don't lie to me, just get your things
I've made up your mind
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Old 12-17-2012, 11:42 AM
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I have always liked music in the good times and in the bad times. If I am feeling particularly bothered about something, I take a long walk with my IPOD.

Here's a song that fits many of the moments in our lives where we are searching for meaning:

Natalie Grant-Held-lyrics video - YouTube
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