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Old 06-22-2010, 04:37 PM
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my deepest sympathies to you...

my best friend lost her son last November....and it is just a helpless, sad, sad feeling. Take good care of yourself....you are not alone
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Old 06-22-2010, 04:51 PM
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Oh Stefanie, I'm so sorry...There is no way to take this pain away, although I wish I could. Please know we walk with you during this very difficult time.
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Old 06-22-2010, 05:02 PM
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My heart hurts for you, Stefanie. Please be gentle with your spirit.
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Old 06-22-2010, 05:14 PM
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Stefanie, I'm so sad to hear about your loss. We lost my sister last week too... it's so hard. I am sending warm thoughts for your and family to experience gentle healing in the days to come.

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Old 06-22-2010, 05:55 PM
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I am so deeply sorry for your pain and your loss. May you find peace now and in the days ahead. I am praying for you and all those affected by your loss.
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Old 06-22-2010, 07:12 PM
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Stefanie,

So very, very sorry. It's just awful, and no words can really help, or convey the deep feelings. I hope you will be able to seek healing sometime soon.

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Old 06-22-2010, 07:42 PM
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I'm so so sorry Stefanie. I just don't even know what to say here. This is all beyond my comprehension. You & yours will be in my thoughts & prayers often.
((((((((((((Compassionate Hugs))))))))))))))
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Old 06-22-2010, 07:46 PM
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((((((((((((((((Stefanie)))))))))))))))))))
Oh my gosh, unbearably awful....... I know you are numb and in shock.
My 26 yr. old beloved son died of heroin overdose June 11, 2010 after two yrs. of sobriety. We just had his service this past Saturday. I will send you a priv. message.
When your friends and family offer to help ...be sure to let them.
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Old 06-22-2010, 09:23 PM
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Stefanie - I am so very sorry. We've had quite a few losses on SR as of late. May he be wrapped with angels hands and be carried off to peace. Sweetie, take care of yourself. Go through the greiving process with gentle hands. I am so sorry.
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Old 06-23-2010, 01:35 AM
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I am so sorry to hear that your son succumbed to this as well. My deepest sympathy. He is in the arms of the angels now.
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Old 06-23-2010, 02:59 AM
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I too am the mother of a heroin addict and I am so very sorry that you have to live the nightmare we all have. My thoughts and prayers.
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Old 06-23-2010, 03:28 AM
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(((Stefanie))) - I'm so very sorry. Please know that I am sending many, many hugs and prayers to you, your family, and all who loved your dear son.

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Old 06-23-2010, 04:59 AM
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Stefanie, I am so sorry, words seem incredibly insufficient. I'm holding you and your family in my heart.
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Old 06-23-2010, 05:25 AM
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I am so very sorry....
Please know that you and your family are in my prayers

these recent horrific incidents of recovery and relapse remind us of how fragile and precious each day is....

I am so sorry that my nightmare is your reality
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Old 06-23-2010, 05:53 AM
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Thank you all for your kindness. I 'm still in shock...he was 23 years old!!! The night before, I gave him a hug around his broad shoulders. I think we said we loved each other, i hope we did.I miss him so much!!This makes no sense...it was one of my worst fears though.
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Old 06-23-2010, 06:30 AM
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Prayers for your comfort ...I'm sorry for your loss....
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Old 06-23-2010, 08:46 AM
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Sorry for you loss even though it's always in our heads this could happen it doesn't lessen the pain.
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Old 06-23-2010, 09:03 AM
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(((stefanie))) I am so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of hugs & prayers your way.

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Old 06-23-2010, 09:46 AM
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Stefanie,
Sending all my prayers to you and your family. We lost our lovely 21 year old daughter on Saturday to a probable methadone overdose.
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Old 06-23-2010, 09:48 AM
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Thoughts and prayers are with you Steph. I am so sorry.
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