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Old 06-23-2010, 09:50 AM
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I am so incredibly sorry and sad for your loss. Prayers for you and all who loved him.
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Old 06-23-2010, 04:38 PM
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I note that most of these posts say "I'm sorry..."

No critique intended; how inadequate we are.

I cannot add another "I'm sorry." You and your son have touched another, however. Is that adequate? No.

I am a parent of three who has faced no such thing. That is as it should be, isn't it? There is no "should be."

I cannot grasp your pain. Your lack of understanding. As it should be...

Still warm from a hug. No. Not as it should be.

I'm sorry. There, I've said it. How inadequate.

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Old 06-23-2010, 07:29 PM
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Stefanie, I'm so sorry to hear about your son. I'm praying for peace and strength for you and all who loved him in the days ahead. (((HUGS))) and (((PRAYERS)))
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Old 06-23-2010, 09:19 PM
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(((((Stefanie)))))

I am so very sorry for your loss. You are right, you are living all of us parents' worst nightmare. It's a reality we all have to face. My heart breaks for you. You are in my prayers for your strength and peace.
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Old 06-23-2010, 09:39 PM
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So very sorry for your loss. Prayers and hugs are coming to you and your family.
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Old 06-23-2010, 10:07 PM
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I hate what this disease does to our children and our families. Sending my prayers that you may find some peace tonight.

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Old 06-23-2010, 10:31 PM
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This disease...takes so much from so many...just devastating...I pray he's at peace now, after his long struggle with addiction. I'm sorry for your loss.

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Old 06-23-2010, 10:56 PM
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I can't imagine what you are going through. ****{HUGS}}}
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Old 06-24-2010, 05:24 AM
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Stefanie I'm so terribly sorry you have lost your precious son. My heart goes out to you in your darkest hour & I pray for peace for you & your son. I hope the thoughts & prayers of all of us here are of some small comfort to you.
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Old 06-24-2010, 08:08 AM
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stefanie,

I will keep you in my thoughts, I'm sorry for your loss.

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Old 06-24-2010, 11:51 AM
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Thinking of you today, Stefanie! (((((hugs)))))
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Old 06-25-2010, 12:44 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss. It is a tragedy to lose someone so young.
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Old 06-25-2010, 06:15 AM
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So much pain, so much sadness. Sending love and prayers for healing.
This was NOT your fault.

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Old 06-25-2010, 08:33 AM
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Stefanie, my thoughts have been with you all day. I pray that you may find strength today.
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Old 06-25-2010, 01:41 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss. (((Hugs))) from another mom of a heroin addict.
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Old 06-25-2010, 05:49 PM
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Stephanie,
You and your family are in my thoughts & prayers during this most difficult time.
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Old 06-28-2010, 10:40 PM
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I'm new here and this is sobering to say the least. As a mother of a heroin addict who constantly struggles with the disease I can only begin to imagine how you feel. I am truly sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.
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Old 07-12-2010, 05:49 PM
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As the father of a 23 year old addict, you are now dealing with what all of us fear so much. I pray for you, your family, and your son. May the wings of an angel now be wrapped around the pain of your child.
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Old 07-12-2010, 06:10 PM
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I am so terribly sorry. I just lost my BF last week. This is just too much...
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Old 07-12-2010, 06:25 PM
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There are no words suitable for a mother who has lost her precious child. So me saying I'm sorry isn't going to change anything. Just know that we are all here for you Stephanie with open hearts and open arms. I too have an addict son, and it breaks my heart. I fear, what your living. My heart aches for you. Big time. :ghug3
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