The big push....

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Old 07-31-2008, 04:04 AM
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The big push....

Well I am going to give it one more go to get my H out of my life. I am going to get some boxes today and start packing his stuff myself.

He doesn't seem to be taking me seriously some how maybe I can use that to my advantage.

Pray for me okay...
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Old 07-31-2008, 04:08 AM
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I will be thinking of you. Be safe and stay calm.
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Old 07-31-2008, 05:30 AM
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Splendra, you will be in my thoughts are prayers today and the coming days. Stay strong honey if this is what you want I believe you can do it.

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Old 07-31-2008, 05:33 AM
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It seems to be that time of year. I have a friend here who's doing the same thing -packing HIS stuff while HE goes out drinking with his buddies...

She gave him a date by which he needs to be gone ( the end of the month which happens to be today) and has told him what will happen with his stuff etc if he chooses to not pack it. She's been nicely packing it for him and is going to either take it over to the place he's supposedly moving into or get a storage unit for 30 days and give him the key.

Hers is not a violent or volatile man. Just a sad and tired one who drinks too much. I hope you're able to work your situation out to your best advantage, Splendra... be safe.
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Sending prayers your way that things work out for you. Hugs, Marle
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Old 07-31-2008, 06:27 AM
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I am hoping he will leave the state to be closer to his kids and much farther away from me.
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((((Splendra))))

Sending you big hugs and prayers!

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Old 07-31-2008, 08:45 AM
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Good for you Splendra! Prayers and hugs coming your way!
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Old 07-31-2008, 08:51 AM
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Old 07-31-2008, 08:57 AM
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Old 07-31-2008, 10:03 AM
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I'm sitting with you while you pack, Splendra, sharing some cheesecake when you need a break. We've walked a long way together and just know that we're all with you today.

Please be safe, this is the most volatile time for many people, and have a backup plan just in case.

Sending big hugs and lotsa love, this takes a whole bunch of courage and you are a very brave lady.

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Old 07-31-2008, 03:12 PM
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Love you, Splen.... keeping you in my prayers.
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my thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Old 07-31-2008, 08:16 PM
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Thinking of you and sending tons of prayers and positive thoughts. I admire your strength and courage as well as your positive outlook even when life is delivering lemons.
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Old 08-01-2008, 04:25 AM
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The drama my H is projecting is what is so hard there seems to be no end to the bullsjit...

I do intend to keep moving
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Old 08-01-2008, 04:33 AM
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(((Splendra)))

We A's are very good at creating drama. For me, once people basically started ignoring my drama and going on with their lives, I stopped the drama...it wasn't "working" any more.

Keep moving forward. You deserve a life without all the drama!

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Old 08-01-2008, 05:36 AM
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Old 08-01-2008, 07:13 AM
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Good for you girl! I love how you are sticking to your boundaries. I'll be watching your posts for inspiration and ideas with my AH.
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