back to square one.
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back to square one.
well the lawyer called a.s. today & told him he will probley be tried as habitual. those who have kept up with this case knows how it has been up & down.first the lawyer told j. he would not get any time,then no more than 2-4 yrs. or probation, then habitual & then again no more than 2-4yrs & then again today, it will probley be habitual. j. was frantic. the lawyer call my house looking for j. & told mr. hope that j. had told him to go f**k himself. he goes to court tomorrow or is suppose to. i talk to j. when i got home from work & he said he may not show up. i told him he may have a chance if he goes. i can imagine how j. feels because i know how i feel. this is crazy. i heard the lawyer say last week he would not be tried as habitul in that county,that was a promise. i will not be in court, i just can not put myself thru it. i am going to work tomorrow 11am-7pm & hope i can keep the focus on my job.prayers please for my son. he is & i am scared to death. 18yrs is a long time. i will probley be dead by then. i need your prayers bad on this.
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Oh my God, I don't even know j. personally and this is driving me crazy!!! It sounded so much more positive the other day. I'm so sorry you all are having to deal with this nightmare. My continued thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. love, rica
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(((Hope)))
Sometimes, when I could not face the "what if's", I grab on to every ounce of faith I can find, and if I can't find any then I find some Blind Faith, and just trust the process, trust that life unfolds exactly the way it is supposed to.
Sending many prayers for you and for J today, that God will wrap His arms around you both and keep you safe.
Please let us know how it goes today, Hope, and know that we all love you and care.
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Sometimes, when I could not face the "what if's", I grab on to every ounce of faith I can find, and if I can't find any then I find some Blind Faith, and just trust the process, trust that life unfolds exactly the way it is supposed to.
Sending many prayers for you and for J today, that God will wrap His arms around you both and keep you safe.
Please let us know how it goes today, Hope, and know that we all love you and care.
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Bless you, Hope, and J. and Mr. Hope. I will pray today for your family. I think you are very wise and strong to have made the decision not to go to court today but to just go to work. May your faith conquer your fear today and let J's HP attend court with him instead.
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I understand your stress. These things can really wear you - spending time worrying about what might happen. When it comes to the courts and jail time, it's best to just stay in the now. You didn't cause it. You can't control it and you won't be able to change it. Put your son in your HPs hands and know that whatever happens, happens for a reason.
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What a painful situation for everyone, Hope.
No matter if we let go and let God - I find I still have the emotions connected to the situation - praying for comfort for you as you feel your feelings.
Praying for God's best in this situation and for the strength & courage for AS, you & your hubby.
Mom Hugs to You!!
Rita
No matter if we let go and let God - I find I still have the emotions connected to the situation - praying for comfort for you as you feel your feelings.
Praying for God's best in this situation and for the strength & courage for AS, you & your hubby.
Mom Hugs to You!!
Rita
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