Dee at Mt Bully

I'm wondering if any of these manipulating controlling issues had an affect on your
AH when he was growing up and if they are part of how he behaves today. Hmmm
These thoughts just popped into my head--I was told by a counselor years ago
to look at the interaction of your H with his parents and you will see your probable
future--Hmmmm--did not do that myself and look what it got me. Your MIL really
sounds like the root of the problem. prayers--Dee

Gracey

they are pretty dam good at manipulation................I always think twice about all of this , and I always question myself and most of the time I think I am nuts.........

I just may get my certificate soon on insanity, my first counseling appointment is on Tuesday.....

Maybe we are all just crazy, but atleast I am working on my craziness.

rivercitybelle

And you made the choice to marry him, not his mother, not his sister. Unfortunately there seems to be you, your husband and his mother in your marriage... what you he say if you told him your mother was moving closer to be with ALL the kids more? Also, does he want Bree's older siblings to hate her? That's what this type of behavior is setting up, especially with the "hide the food", etc.. Kids know and hold in a lot more than we ever give them credit for.