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Old 10-19-2019, 03:51 PM
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I can’t imagine. I hope you have good people around you right now.
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Old 10-19-2019, 05:19 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.

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Old 10-19-2019, 06:26 PM
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Sorry for your and his family's loss.
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Old 10-19-2019, 06:26 PM
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There are no words...but i am so sorry for you, and him. Please always remember we genuinely care here and want to listen. X
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Old 10-19-2019, 06:43 PM
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Dear Lost

Im so glad you posted sweetheart. What a terrible shock for you.

You are amongst friends here , so lean on us for support.

Sending you much love


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Old 10-19-2019, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by batchel9 View Post
I think about this day. Hasn’t happened to me but, what do they say?? Alcoholism ends in recovery or death???? And mine isnt in recovery. Sorry for your loss, we all can relate to some extent.

Its NEVER too late

You are still alive, you are still here. Maybe you were meant to read this post Batchel.
Life works in mysterious ways..

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Old 10-19-2019, 10:58 PM
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Oh Lost! I was following your story. I thought since you hadn’t posted that you had moved on and finally found some peace. This is much more painful. I’m so sorry for your loss. You did all you could. He is at peace now. Sending you hugs.
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Old 10-20-2019, 04:20 AM
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Lostinjersey

So sorry to learn of this tragic news.

Hopefully the oddly peaceful feeling you woke up too came from god letting you know that your Ex is finally in a very warm & peaceful place totally free from addiction & suffering.

You have my sincerest condolences.
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Old 10-20-2019, 04:25 AM
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Dear lost...

I'm so very sorry to hear this How utterly heartbreaking! I do understand your grief.

I hope you are surrounded by friends and family who can support you and that you are seeing a counselor who can help you with your grief. You are in my prayers.

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Old 10-20-2019, 07:36 AM
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I am so sorry! 😪
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Old 10-20-2019, 09:58 PM
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Lost, I am sorry for your loss. You had hope for a future with him again and that future is gone.
My EXAH ended his life last week, I've had 8 years of distance and the grief is surprising. I don't know how I would cope if I had still had hope.
Talk as much as you need to, we are listening.
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Old 10-21-2019, 07:52 AM
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Oh Lost, I am so very, very sorry.

We are here for you! Sending you very big hugs!
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Old 10-21-2019, 08:09 AM
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I'm so sorry. This was always my biggest fear all the times I use to find him in motel rooms. I am just so SO sorry. The pain is overwhelming so give yourself time to process, find support, and know that you did everything you could. Sending lots of love to you today and strength.
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Old 10-21-2019, 01:28 PM
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My deepest sympathies to you. We are all here
for you. I too suggest Alanon if you find you are in need of IRL support. Hugs.
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