Halfway House is tearing me and my boyfriend apart
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I feel like Al Anon is just going to normalize his behavior and that's not what I want to hear. I feel like it's so normal to everyone that these addicts do this. It's so wrong. I'm not dissing anyone. I appreciate you all very much. I'm just baffled that this is "normal" if that makes sense? It's taking a toll on me.
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Originally Posted by AnvilheadII 
That his brain was so clouded with chemicals from drinking that he wasn't actually in love with me.
if we insist on maintaining a relationship with an active addict, we are likely to get a whole bunch of BS...........
if we insist on maintaining a relationship with an active addict, we are likely to get a whole bunch of BS...........
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Originally Posted by atalose
Yes it is normal for addicts to do those things what is not normal is to tolerate it, to accept it and continue to go back for more all in the name of LOVE.
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So, it's very painful to be fooled for three years.
Best thing he ever did for me. Almost two years later, I met the man who became my husband. There is NO comparison. Even now, I still can't believe I was willing to settle for much much less.
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