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Old 02-06-2017, 05:42 PM
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I'm so sorry hearthealth.
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Old 02-06-2017, 06:15 PM
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So sorry, HH. I'm glad you and the family are there with her. Godspeed to your mother--
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Old 02-07-2017, 04:57 AM
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Wishing you strength HH, and knowledge that you are giving your mother a wonderful gift of care in her last days.
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Old 02-07-2017, 05:26 AM
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Thank you everyone. Mother is with HP.
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Old 02-07-2017, 05:42 AM
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hearthealth,.....I know your heart is hurting....and I feel for you, soo much...
I hope that you will be able to take s ome comfort in knowing that your mother is at peace....
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Old 02-07-2017, 05:59 AM
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My sympathy for your loss, hh. Lighting the lamp to light her way...

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Old 02-07-2017, 09:00 AM
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Peace and comfort to your family, and (((HUGS))).
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Old 02-07-2017, 09:23 AM
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Hugs and comfort sent your way HH. You are alone.
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Old 02-07-2017, 09:30 AM
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Thoughts are with you during this difficult and sad time.
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Prayers for you and your family, hearthealth!
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Old 02-07-2017, 03:13 PM
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...you are NOT alone.
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Old 02-07-2017, 03:47 PM
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...you are NOT alone.
Thank you thousandwords. I knew you must have meant not alone. I feel very blessed to have so many well wishes.
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Old 02-07-2017, 07:30 PM
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Ah Hearthealth, may battalions of angels swarm your family.

Peace, healing and hugs.
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Old 02-07-2017, 08:23 PM
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Hearthealth - so glad your mind and heart were clear and focused during those last days with your mother. You were truly THERE for her....hope that mindfulness carries on for you.
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Old 02-07-2017, 09:10 PM
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Sending hugs and sympathy to you. ..
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Old 02-08-2017, 01:15 AM
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My deepest sympathy, HH. I hope you get lots of support from your loved ones.
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Old 02-08-2017, 07:44 PM
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The children will continue with counseling. Next week I will contact a new lawyer. I'm thinking of renting a van and move my sentimental items.

My brother states I should wait six monthes after a loss. For me it's a clear picture of unacceptable. I no longer can accept H behavior.
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Old 02-08-2017, 10:28 PM
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I do not agree w/your brother. You've been waiting for a long time already. One of the things you've been waiting for was for your mother to pass on, as you wanted to care for her in her final days.

You've given her that gift and now it's time to give yourself a gift, too--the gift of peace and sanity.
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Old 02-09-2017, 02:04 AM
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I do not agree w/your brother. You've been waiting for a long time already. One of the things you've been waiting for was for your mother to pass on, as you wanted to care for her in her final days.

You've given her that gift and now it's time to give yourself a gift, too--the gift of peace and sanity.
What a beautiful way to respond. Thank you
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Old 02-09-2017, 03:29 AM
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Good morning, hearthealth...

I am just so sorry to hear about your mother, but I'm glad you were able to be there with her and your brother and the rest of your family. You are all in my prayers

Perhaps the time has come when the only voice you listen to is that still, small voice inside. The one that has been trying to be heard for so long. The one that will guide you to peace, safety, and joy.

You are definitely not alone! Take whatever time you need to make wise decisions and that next right step...we have faith in you!
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