Gone Too Soon, I guess alcohol won

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Old 08-09-2015, 06:01 AM
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So sorry to hear this, Lucy. Please be gentle and kind to yourself. You did what you could.

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Old 08-09-2015, 06:12 AM
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So sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family.
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Old 08-09-2015, 06:12 AM
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Prayers sent for you and your girls.
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Old 08-09-2015, 06:14 AM
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Heartfelt condolences to you and your daughters. I agree with Lenina, be gentle with yourself and know you did what you could.
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Old 08-09-2015, 07:11 AM
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I am terribly sorry for your loss
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Old 08-09-2015, 07:22 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss Lucy- I'm sending you strength and love to get through this tragic time. This disease is cunning baffling and powerful. Lots of love and hugs
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Old 08-09-2015, 07:26 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Sounds like a storybook marriage in the beginning, which makes it harder to bear, I'm sure. This disease of alcoholism is a horrible thief. I wish you well in your time of grieving.
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Old 08-09-2015, 07:36 AM
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Thank you for posting this in your time of sorrow. Your story may help someone.

I'm sorry for your family's loss.
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Old 08-09-2015, 07:42 AM
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I am so sorry for your loss and your children's loss. What a tragedy.
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Old 08-09-2015, 08:09 AM
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I will pray for you and your family. The death of my AH is my biggest fear. Hug your babies tight and find solace in them. Focus on those positive great memories as you mourn. May God be with you.
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Old 08-09-2015, 08:17 AM
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I am so sore for this tragic ending. He's finally free of his demons and I pray you and your girls find peace in the GOOD memories.
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Old 08-09-2015, 08:45 AM
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Lucy, I am terribly sorry. I am praying for all of you. You did all you could have possibly done in an admirable fashion. In his sick state, you loved from a distance while caring for yourself and your children. You listened to your intuition and sought help when you knew something was wrong. Your love and compassion are evident. I pray that you will find peace. I pray for your daughters most especially. God bless all of you.
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Old 08-09-2015, 09:17 AM
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So sorry to read this Lucy. God bless you and your children.
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Old 08-09-2015, 09:27 AM
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I'm so sorry for your loss Lucy. My heart is breaking for you and your girls. Your husband sounds like he was a great man at his core. It's tragic how this disease can take good people down so hard.

Sending love and peace to you and yours.
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Old 08-09-2015, 09:34 AM
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Thoughts & prayers of strength to you & your girls Lucy - I am so sorry for your loss
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Old 08-09-2015, 09:48 AM
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Lucy, so sorry for your loss. Yes, please be kind to yourself and hold your girls tight.

My mother died from addiction, and 30 years later I'm still grateful for the good memories of a very loving person. Keep hold of hose lovely memories. They will stick with you forever, no one can take those away.

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I'm so sorry your husband never found the joys of recovery. His soul is now at peace.
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Old 08-09-2015, 09:50 AM
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Thinking of you & your precious children.
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Old 08-09-2015, 10:38 AM
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Thank you everyone for your kind words. We have no family down here but we do have great friends.

I was determined to tell the kids this morning. They are so happy right now, innocently playing. I guess there is never a good time for news like this. I feel like once I tell them it will forever change their world.
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Old 08-09-2015, 10:39 AM
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May he finally rest in peace. My thought and prayers are with you and the girls.
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