bird13

I will say one more thought here, we all are trying to assume what he is or isn't doing. So hard b/c we aren't addicts honestly..... so many different possibilities. there is one sure thing and this is why al anon is awesome when it teaches not to worry about whether they are or aren't using, and try to refocus on you as hard as that is. b/c otherwise we end up trying to do what we are doing now, guess where they are "at" which is so difficult to do and know if it is accurate. Also, we lose serenity. Tough. :/