It's getting harder
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It's getting harder
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Brother is in bad shape, calling me to talk
He is very ill and the doctors are not treating him - whether or not he has contacted them recently I don't know
He left a voice mail last night and I feel HORRIBLE
He sounds so weak and scared, god knows I have done what I can
I am feeling guilty as sin and am feeling sick over it
He is going to die alone, living in someone else's spare room, it just kills me and I am afraid to call him back
Brother is in bad shape, calling me to talk
He is very ill and the doctors are not treating him - whether or not he has contacted them recently I don't know
He left a voice mail last night and I feel HORRIBLE
He sounds so weak and scared, god knows I have done what I can
I am feeling guilty as sin and am feeling sick over it
He is going to die alone, living in someone else's spare room, it just kills me and I am afraid to call him back
Have you suggested a hospital? If you offer a suggestion you'll feel better, at least. If he does nothing then, I'm afraid, there's nothing you can do or say. Pray for him. I'm so sorry you're going through this painful situation. A big hug.
And take good care of yourself.
It does make sense. No matter how much you know their mistakes were dumb ones, and that they did this to themselves, it does not stop you from hurting to see them go down the rabbit hole they created.
I am so so sorry.
I am so so sorry.
((((((BUG HUGS))))))) I'm sorry you have to witness this, even as removed /detached as you've made yourself, it's still difficult to reconcile that someone you love is choosing this.
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