So unbelievably angry, shaking.
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Personally I think going straight for the divorce is in your best interest as well.
I am not some bitter jaded woman who has nothing better to do all day then bash other women's alcoholic or addict husbands. Really I'm not.
I just think at some point you say enough is enough. Testing positive for coke, getting arrested for psychotic behavior etc, etc, IS ENOUGH.
I am not some bitter jaded woman who has nothing better to do all day then bash other women's alcoholic or addict husbands. Really I'm not.
I just think at some point you say enough is enough. Testing positive for coke, getting arrested for psychotic behavior etc, etc, IS ENOUGH.
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Honey, it's absolutely right for you to want him to move away! Who wouldn't!
You know better than to care if he thinks this is your fault or not. He's off his rocker, literally in a mental hospital. There's a reason for that. They always accelerate, but that does not mean you have to.
Carry on, you are doing great my friend!
And...make sure if you cannot get ahold of anything showing he tested positive for coke that you at least note the time and person who told you so his medical records could be reviewed by the courts if needed in the course of the divorce.
You know better than to care if he thinks this is your fault or not. He's off his rocker, literally in a mental hospital. There's a reason for that. They always accelerate, but that does not mean you have to.
Carry on, you are doing great my friend!
And...make sure if you cannot get ahold of anything showing he tested positive for coke that you at least note the time and person who told you so his medical records could be reviewed by the courts if needed in the course of the divorce.
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Originally Posted by EmmyG 
I told him he needed rehab and that it was important and he had to go. He agreed to it. Now, he says he can't believe I took advantage of his vulnerable state and that he never would have agreed to that in his right mind, and I jeopardized his business, etc.
So you took advantage of his drunken/cocaine induced stupor to...convince him to get well? Why, how DARE you!!
Who agrees to go to rehab while they're in their right mind? The point of rehab is to get people sane and sober, who are currently crazy and high.
I wish you the best. If you proceed with a divorce, you may be able to ask for a neurological exam for your A, to ascertain if he's functional enough to parent the kids. Maybe supervised visits? Good luck!!
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It's hard for me to do it, but to be honest, I have a MOUNTAIN of evidence stored just in case. He tested positive for cocaine back in March as well, and I have evidence of that too. Not to mention the 3-4 drunk-in-publics and the DUI.
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