Filing the last of the papers today...

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Old 09-10-2013, 10:23 PM
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haha I was 23 in 99 Had my first child.

I don't normally feel like crying unless I'm angry. When I'm hurt or sad, I reflect and figure out why I'm this way, recognize it and let it go.

But today, it was just a wide range of emotions. Crying was important.
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Old 09-10-2013, 10:31 PM
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I had previously cried 3x in my life. I wouldn't even cry when my grandparents died.

So far I have cried from coming to terms with my breakup with the XAGF (most every night at first) and my last cry was one of surrender. I need to work on the letting go.
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Old 09-11-2013, 06:25 AM
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Yes. I am a Beatles lover. Since...1999 haha (when I was 23). Changed my life, they did. I met Paul in 2005 on his book tour. I'm even in his tour DVD oh yea. My daughter has his name as one of hers. Yea. I'm BeatleChick.

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I did do it. I feel better. Had sushi with a friend and sat in a park talking with her. It was nice. She's my own true friend that I have through thick and thin and I for her.

It was a nice afternoon. I feel good. This is all so heavy, but it was nice to take some time off from thinking.
I met Paul in 2011-got called up on stage during his sound check, when he played in Detroit! My dream of 47 years came true that day!

How cool we have something in common, other than alcoholics!!
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Old 09-11-2013, 06:46 AM
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BeatleChick---Here is an interesting factoid: There is actually a useful physiological basis for the tears. When we experience overwhelming emotions---our system is flooded with corresponding hormones---when tears have been analyzed--these excess hormones are present in the tears (not all tears are alike). It is theorized that tears (and crying) is a release valve (sort of) for the body and mind. (the body and mind cannot be completely separated).

I find that crying is a great way of letting the pain "out". Crying can also express what most all of us are not articulate enough to express in words. Notice how a three year old or a dog seems to understand when we cry--and not even a word is spoken!!

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Old 09-11-2013, 09:10 PM
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Oh I believe you. I just don't get the urge often...unless angry.

I can't force myself. I've tried.
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Old 09-12-2013, 12:23 PM
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John Lennon from "Remember"
Don't you worry
'bout what you've done
Don't feel sorry
'bout the way it's gone
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Old 09-12-2013, 04:14 PM
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Wellllllll effing court rejected my paperwork because it was missing a paper that they didn't even CHECK OFF on the form that they WANTED!



I'm going back tomorrow. F3ckers. I'm so irritated.
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Old 09-12-2013, 07:51 PM
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Ugg those types of hang ups can seem so defeating. Hang in there...you're on the right path. Obstacles and all!!
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