fluffyflea

Lots of red flags here.......

How long have you known her.........?

unindated

A year

coraltint

unpredictable, irrational, incredibly defensive......all symptomatic of an alcoholic practicing their art.

don't try to figure her out, un.....it's not possible. wish her well & cut your losses until she shows up making more sense. that will be your indicator that she's in recovery.

glad to have you with us here on SR, good luck!!

Tuffgirl

Addiction/mental illness....doesn't matter if she isn't seeking treatment for whatever ails her. Which she can do, if she wants to.

When people tell you who they are, believe them.

You've been told and warned. My humble advice? Cut this one loose with a kind hug and well wishes for her future, and run like hell.