I'm done.
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Originally Posted by rdlesstraveled 
anvilhead,
Thank you! You have helped me more than you will ever know....... my higher power just spoke through you to me. Thank you thank you thank you!
Thank you! You have helped me more than you will ever know....... my higher power just spoke through you to me. Thank you thank you thank you!
To thine own self be true.
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Originally Posted by rdlesstraveled
Thank you all so VERY VERY much!!! I have made my decision and that decision is me and MY life. I am extricating myself out of this horrible relationship (if you can even call it that). I will continue to post (because I still have A LOT of work and healing ahead) and I will actively go to ACOA/Al Anon.
For any newbies reading....... keep posting, keep reading. This forum and these posters will give you strength to do what YOU need to do. THANK YOU!!!!!!!! Love you!!!!!
For any newbies reading....... keep posting, keep reading. This forum and these posters will give you strength to do what YOU need to do. THANK YOU!!!!!!!! Love you!!!!!
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Not being able to do anything right was a recurring theme in my relationship with the AXBF as well. Even after I broke up with him for being an angry, raging a**, he sent me a letter about everything I was doing WRONG in the relationship.
you will never win with this person, sad but true...
you will never win with this person, sad but true...
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Originally Posted by ZiggyB
Not being able to do anything right was a recurring theme in my relationship with the AXBF as well. Even after I broke up with him for being an angry, raging a**, he sent me a letter about everything I was doing WRONG in the relationship.
you will never win with this person, sad but true...
you will never win with this person, sad but true...
I will have to totally prepare myself for the aftermath. It will NOT be pretty. I do not fear him at all, but the tears will be flowing, the apologies will be ongoing and I will be text/cell stalked.
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Seriously...create a plan NOW.
The apologies, flowers, love notes and promises are VERY hard to fight off once your initial anger wears down.
The first few days are easy. But we're all human...and lonely days and nights get each and every one of us.
A lot of people here recommend blocking their cell phone number.
The apologies, flowers, love notes and promises are VERY hard to fight off once your initial anger wears down.
The first few days are easy. But we're all human...and lonely days and nights get each and every one of us.
A lot of people here recommend blocking their cell phone number.
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Originally Posted by rdlesstraveled
ZiggyB,
I will have to totally prepare myself for the aftermath. It will NOT be pretty. I do not fear him at all, but the tears will be flowing, the apologies will be ongoing and I will be text/cell stalked.
I will have to totally prepare myself for the aftermath. It will NOT be pretty. I do not fear him at all, but the tears will be flowing, the apologies will be ongoing and I will be text/cell stalked.
Don't listen to him, that's my best advice. They never change and you will be wasting precious years of your life.
I did not block his cell number but I deleted it from my phone and deleted all his emails. I also blocked and/or removed him from my social media accounts so there would be no reminders. You need a barrier 10 feet tall!
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Originally Posted by rdlesstraveled
ZiggyB,
I will have to totally prepare myself for the aftermath. It will NOT be pretty. I do not fear him at all, but the tears will be flowing, the apologies will be ongoing and I will be text/cell stalked.
I will have to totally prepare myself for the aftermath. It will NOT be pretty. I do not fear him at all, but the tears will be flowing, the apologies will be ongoing and I will be text/cell stalked.
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