dollydo

For me, peace came when I moved on, without him. As long as I subjected myself to his toxic behavior and mind set there was no peace.

I detached, went no contact, put my left foot ahead of my right foot and walked forward without him. The pain does go away, as for the fear part, I do not know, I was never fearful about his outcome, as I knew that it was his choice, his path in life, not mine. For every bad action, there is a bad reaction.

choublak

I'm still confused. You can't just cancel the insurance policy?

gerryP

I'm sure it was difficult Anon but it sounds like you handled it beautifully.

JellyBean123

I hope I am that strong if my situation comes to that point. AH has already been in one drunk driving accident (where he was driving, he has had many many stupid drunk injuries) so I fear he will do it again. When I can, I go to the bar and take the battery out of his car if I know he has been drinking. It just sucks. Stupid alcohol! Hope it gets easier for you.

Anon12

I couldn't cancel it til Monday so couldn't risk something more serious happening over the weekend.