Contemplation and Codependency

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Contemplation and Codependency

This is not the first time I've quoted Richard Rohr here. By the way, he has a new book coming out about the 12 Steps called Breathing Under Water. Can't wait to get it.

In any case, I got this eMeditation in my inbox today.


Contemplation is meeting as much reality as we can handle in its most simple and immediate form, without filters, judgments, and commentaries. Now you see why it is so rare and, in fact, “the narrow road that few walk on” (Matthew 7:14). The only way you can contemplate is by recognizing and relativizing your own compulsive mental grids—your practiced ways of judging, critiquing, blocking, and computing everything.

This is what we are trying to do by practicing contemplative prayer, and people addicted to their own mind will find contemplation most difficult, if not impossible. Much that is called thinking is simply the ego’s stating of what it prefers and likes—and resistances to what it does not like. Narcissistic reactions to the moment are not worthy of being called thinking. Yet that is much of our public and private discourse.

When your mental judgmental grid and all its commentaries are placed aside, God finally has a chance to get through to you, because your pettiness is at last out of the way. Then Truth stands revealed! You will begin to recognize that we all carry the Divine Indwelling within us and we all carry it equally. That will change your theology, your politics, and your entire worldview. In fact, it is the very birth of the soul
I think this is one of the best tools for moving beyond codependency: just dealing with your mental judgement grid. It doesn't mean to accept the unacceptable, but just to challenge your filters and habitual ways of criticizing. Process and examine your thoughts and feelings, live in the moment, challenge yourself and stay open to your indwelling spirit.

I love it!
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