stepsforward

Great job!!!!

NYCDoglvr

I suggest working the 12 Steps in Al-anon with a sponsor, which was a huge help with my codependency. I wanted the pain to stop but it wasn't until I took action by doing the steps and praying that my life started to change. And while I changed I was able to start loving myself and silenced the self-destructive tapes that had been on "play" my whole life. While reading books is interesting, they don't help me change. It was only by taking action that the process really changed.

Cyranoak

...but I know what I don't want so when I'm confused or lost I refer back to that. And, of course, I make sure to ride at every opportunity.

I hope that helps. I wish I could help more.

Take care,

C-