Kassie2

I had a good day - one where I felt thought of, appreciated and cared about by others.

In contrast I was confronted first thing this morning with a problem related to my estranged AH and the lack of his follow through in signing the D. It is limiting my ability to refiance my home. He doesn't act caring about me or my welfare. So I decided to table it today.

I will be sending an email giving him choices to work it out amicably or not at this point. Not sure what kind of response I will get and probably won't like it. He has been so unreasonable and self centered.

I had thoughts of letting it go and just dealing with things as they are but it just didn't sit well with me and all that I am learning about taking charge of my life.

Asking for positive thoughts as I just have horrible expectations about getting this worked out.

Thumper

Positive thoughts coming your way.

It is kind of like the old saying 'You can do it the easy way or the hard way but at the end of the day, it is going to be done.'

I hope, for your sake, that he chooses the easy way but rest assured - at the end of the proverbial day - it will get done and you will be free.

Pelican

Sending positive thoughts and encouragement (((hugs)))

StarCat

(((((Kassie)))))

Sending kind thoughts and warm wishes your way.
You will get where you need to be.

(((((Kassie)))))

prich

You have been doing a great job of not letting what he does or says get to you. Just like most alcoholics it continues to be just about him. You are getting healthier and stronger every single day. Just know that we are here to support your healthy decisions.

lc1972

Hi kassie

I am sending thoughts and prayers your way that he may chose the easier way. Though I know you will get what you need done. Lots of love your way.

wicked

Kassie,

I am sending positive thoughts your way.
It sucked mightily when my ex used small and mean ways to slow down the process.
You are doing so well on yourself.

I agree with Thumper, it will happen either way, and if you can find some acceptance in that, then all is right with the world.

Beth

Kassie2

I sent the email late last night so that he wouldn't see it until this morning.

Have to admit that I was very anxious about his response. Kind of wished I just let it go. But no response so far. And he wasn't at work today either. Not sure what to expect and feeling nervous.

Wondering if he will just ignore it. Even more is that later this month the car insurance is due and I will pay my part and I am telling the insurance company that he does not live here and send him a separate bill to his new address. Then I will email him that as well.

This is all scarry!