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Old 01-01-2011, 04:55 PM
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Angry enabling....and stopping it

my NA friend and a drunk, lived here for 4 mths(not knowing of his drinking habits)...long story, he borrowed money from me...and he was also collecting disablity chqs (deposit in his account) using my address...

with help of you here...finally i talked to HIS case worker and explained to her that he has not lived with me since June 2010...."where is he?" who knows i said, i dunno....case closed, my address is OFF the chq information...(I received these every month after HE LEFT)<<<all of this was from sending the letters back to SENDER and going to the building and talking to THEM inside the office....

so no address? no money....
I just received an e mail from him...now he is threating that the police will call me....

sounds all to much QUACKING TO ME...just to lay off his back. and not contact him anymore.....

I cant. this is important to me...my money....small claims court, here i come...

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Old 01-01-2011, 04:58 PM
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I'm confused. Why would the police contact you? Who is going to small claims court and why? How is your money involved?
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Old 01-01-2011, 05:03 PM
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he borrowed the money from me...during his stay....HE IS TO PAY ME BACK...and always quacks every single month, yes i will pay you....I have yet to see a dime...

the police...I dunno....why would the police want to contact me?...they should be questioning him....ITS ALL QUACKING to get me to back off of this money that is owing to ME!!

this disablity cheque is his only source of income for him
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Old 01-01-2011, 05:08 PM
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Okay, I get it now. I must have had a brain fart when I read your post. I see now that he borrowed money. Okay, is it a good deal of money? I'm just wondering if it would be worth it to go to all that trouble. If it is, then more power to ya, but even if you are awarded damages, collecting is a different matter.
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Old 01-01-2011, 05:14 PM
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500 CDN...and my money....
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Old 01-01-2011, 05:17 PM
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Well, you can always give it a shot. Do you have a signed note or any evidence that he borrowed the money? Not sure how it works in Canada, but here, if you win and he doesn't pay, you can get an "execution" allowing you to have the money taken from his bank account. Good Luck!
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Old 01-01-2011, 05:20 PM
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yes I do have an agreement signed that he borrowed the cash and plans on paying me back....I will soon find out..I am going to small claims court...this has gone on way to long!
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sounds like he is using the police threat to get you to back down.
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Old 01-01-2011, 05:57 PM
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No more taking in strays and loaning them money
LOL fourmaggie cause I do the same things! See what a pain in the a$$ being codependent can be?
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sounds like he is using the police threat to get you to back down.
you think? LOL, that i got alot time ago...the funny thing is...he has no idea who he was LIVING with....I will get my MONEY back...on my terms...MMUUUHHHAAAA!.....just having some fun.....
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