LaTeeDa

I take it this means there are no divorce papers filed? If that's the case, then you are probably SOL. Fact is, he can do whatever he wants with the marital assets as long as you are still married. Once papers are filed, you have some protection, but still no guarantees.

This was the main reason I felt such relief when my divorce was officially final. I no longer had to worry about what kind of financial predicament he was going to get me into.

There is not much you can do about what's already done. If I were you, I would concentrate on preventing further financial damage in the future.

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GiveLove

Sunny, have you talked to an attorney about all of this yet?

That is really the only way to know whether you can prevent any further bleeding....and I'd strongly suggest it, if only so you will know what you should/could be doing to protect yourself and the kids.