Reddmax

I will... and let me add that all of you, anonymous that you are, have become a source of strength and friendship to me. I care for you all.

GiveLove

Sending you strength, red, to get through this miserable (but necessary) time. See what you can do about catching a few ZZZs - even in your car at lunchtime - because I know it always helps me think more clearly in a crisis.

We're all here for you.

Lilyflower

I got healthier when I realised it was ME who needed to put ME on top of my priority list and to stop waiting for others to do that for me.

Lily xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Reddmax

She want's me to come home tonight. I'll go home, and go on with my life. I've got stuff I've got to move.

GiveLove

Red,

Keep your head, and don't hesitate to call the police if she turns violent. For a number of reasons.

Take care of yourself.

Pajarito

(((Red))), Hitting bottom was hard for me too- and it's still hard 10 months later- sometimes. The wonderful people above this post have said so many great things- love what you said Lilyflower. I have personally been struggling for some days now- and this thread is exactly what I was needing- a reminder. It's also a chance to be a cheerleader- I'm pulling for you Red!

juju

I can’t really say anything more than what’s already been said. Just wanted to throw in that I’m hoping for the best for you.

It is sooooo hard for me to not react when ah is trying to egg me on. I could have pierced my tongue several times at this point for as much as I bite it. But, I always feel better about myself when it’s all said and done for not having allowed myself to play his games.

Take care of you.

juju