hbb

Hi, hope things are going ok with everyone.

Just wanted to fill you in about that guy I've been out with a couple of times. He's GONE!! He sent me an email (mind you, could have called me) and said that "he had been doing alot of thinking about us and that he thought we had a friendship relationship, good luck finding your Match"!!!!! Okay, first of all there was no "us" and secondly, little did he know that i was about to tell him that there was nada feelings going on! I will say, i give him credit for not just disappearing!!

I guess, my only point in writing this thread is well, first off i missed you guys and that the ME a year ago would have clung onto him for dear life!!!! Not these days, i am choosy and will NOT settle!! I think I've grown alot, not perfect, but see red flags much clearer without the rose glasses!!

hugs to you guys, I've been thinking of all of you!

Astro

Now that's what I call progress Heather! Way to go!

i4getsm

That's awesome! I'm praying I'll be in your shoes when I'm ready to date again. I don't want to keep making the same mistakes in the men I choose to keep in my life. All I can say is WOW!!

cagefree

Way to go Heather! I'm glad you are saving your heart for someone who deserves it and giving it now to the person who deserves it the most (you!)

peaceteach

Heather,
If I ever start dating again, can I come to you for advice?

Impurrfect

((((Heather))))

You have grown SO much and I'm really proud of you! I'm like peaceteach..can I come to you for advice whenever I start dating again?

Hugs and prayers!

Amy

hbb

oh you don't want to follow in my footsteps, alot of heartache along the way and alot of down times! I'm a terrible dater but would much rather be with me than with someone for the sake of it! Don't be fooled by me lol, it's been a long time coming!!!!! I think Anvil and some of the others have taken me on as another child lol!!!

But thank you for the compliments. It's responses like these that keep me going, believe me!

:ghug

Spiritual Seeker

Way to be positive and independent.

Kindeyes

Congrats on your wonderful outlook on this situation! Good job!

lexusgirl

You have such a positive attitude!! I think you handled it great!!:ghug3

Rella927

Heather those glasses are nice right? Love them on you!

Way to go keep up the awesome attitude!

hbb

So now....he keeps checking out my profile lol. The best part about Match is seeing who viewed you! He keeps popping up! His loss. Although my friend Mark was saying last night that i shouldn't burn bridges because you never know who you will meet through friends..."networking" he tells me!!!! This from someone who wants to be single so bad lol!!!!