The Movie "The Money Pit"
The Movie "The Money Pit"
This movie was on TV again - if you don't remember it by name - it's got Shelley Long and Tom Hanks in it ... they are an unmarried couple who buy a run-down mansion intending to fix it up and sell it for a profit.
I had always remembered that Shelley Long's character drinks throughout the movie and Tom Hanks pretty much tolerates it until they start getting angry at each other. At one point she's talking about a lawyer passing the bar and an angry Hanks retorts, "You never passed a bar in your life!"
One storyline is that she may have cheated on Hanks by sleeping with her ex, but she was blacked out and she doesn't remember. Hanks is desperate to marry her - desperate for her love. What a codie.
Of course I see this all differently now. What an odd, barely explored "alcoholic and her enabler" theme. Some writer had lived through what we're living through. He;s got it pretty well down.
I had always remembered that Shelley Long's character drinks throughout the movie and Tom Hanks pretty much tolerates it until they start getting angry at each other. At one point she's talking about a lawyer passing the bar and an angry Hanks retorts, "You never passed a bar in your life!"
One storyline is that she may have cheated on Hanks by sleeping with her ex, but she was blacked out and she doesn't remember. Hanks is desperate to marry her - desperate for her love. What a codie.
Of course I see this all differently now. What an odd, barely explored "alcoholic and her enabler" theme. Some writer had lived through what we're living through. He;s got it pretty well down.
It's interesting how alcoholism is treated in films sometimes.
My XABF used to love the film "Leaving Las Vegas". I didn't care for it at the time, but now I really detest it outright. Ever seen it? About the alcoholic who goes to Las Vegas to drink himself to death? My X thought it was the greatest thing since sliced bread. I think it's a depressing, whiny, self-congratulating piece of goat poop.
My alcoholic sister loved "When A Man Loves a Woman." Especially the enabling parts. That was "true love" to her.
I guess I'm going to have to go back and watch The Money Pit! None of the alcoholism/codie references lodged in my brain the first time around....
Ol' grumpy gills is going to bed now
My XABF used to love the film "Leaving Las Vegas". I didn't care for it at the time, but now I really detest it outright. Ever seen it? About the alcoholic who goes to Las Vegas to drink himself to death? My X thought it was the greatest thing since sliced bread. I think it's a depressing, whiny, self-congratulating piece of goat poop.
My alcoholic sister loved "When A Man Loves a Woman." Especially the enabling parts. That was "true love" to her.
I guess I'm going to have to go back and watch The Money Pit! None of the alcoholism/codie references lodged in my brain the first time around....
Ol' grumpy gills is going to bed now
Movies, TV and books are never the same in recovery.
When I watch COPS now, I feel sorry for the drunks. And I Thank God it's not me !
I see program everywhere I look, it's mind blowing. Read Stephen Kings "The Black Tower" series for example, he even uses the word 'right sized" !
When I watch COPS now, I feel sorry for the drunks. And I Thank God it's not me !
I see program everywhere I look, it's mind blowing. Read Stephen Kings "The Black Tower" series for example, he even uses the word 'right sized" !
My XABF used to love the film "Leaving Las Vegas". I didn't care for it at the time, but now I really detest it outright. Ever seen it?
I think "Leaving Las Vegas" is an accelerated version of what all of our A's are doing to themselves -- slowly killing themselves by drinking. *SIGH* I don't like to watch it either.
Or how about "When a Man Loves a Woman." That one is sad, and makes me cry everytime I see it. It's with Meg Ryan and Andy Garcia.
Or how about "When a Man Loves a Woman." That one is sad, and makes me cry everytime I see it. It's with Meg Ryan and Andy Garcia.
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This movie was on TV again - if you don't remember it by name - it's got Shelley Long and Tom Hanks in it ... they are an unmarried couple who buy a run-down mansion intending to fix it up and sell it for a profit.
I had always remembered that Shelley Long's character drinks throughout the movie and Tom Hanks pretty much tolerates it until they start getting angry at each other. At one point she's talking about a lawyer passing the bar and an angry Hanks retorts, "You never passed a bar in your life!"
One storyline is that she may have cheated on Hanks by sleeping with her ex, but she was blacked out and she doesn't remember. Hanks is desperate to marry her - desperate for her love. What a codie.
Of course I see this all differently now. What an odd, barely explored "alcoholic and her enabler" theme. Some writer had lived through what we're living through. He;s got it pretty well down.
I had always remembered that Shelley Long's character drinks throughout the movie and Tom Hanks pretty much tolerates it until they start getting angry at each other. At one point she's talking about a lawyer passing the bar and an angry Hanks retorts, "You never passed a bar in your life!"
One storyline is that she may have cheated on Hanks by sleeping with her ex, but she was blacked out and she doesn't remember. Hanks is desperate to marry her - desperate for her love. What a codie.
Of course I see this all differently now. What an odd, barely explored "alcoholic and her enabler" theme. Some writer had lived through what we're living through. He;s got it pretty well down.
Amazing how we view movies and people when we have entered recovery! It is a grand feeling to finally be aware of what is going on!
Glass my brother actually went to AA with Stephen King. Very bizzare wild man! Great book series too! I have read some.
I can watch the movie and enjoy it on many levels. You see, my house is 100 yrs old, and I'm in the middle of a few "projects" that have become bigger and more complicated as we go along.
AND the relationship between Tom Hanks and Shelley Long's characters is one to review again.
Thanks for making me smile. It's always been one of my favorite movies.
Cats
AND the relationship between Tom Hanks and Shelley Long's characters is one to review again.
Thanks for making me smile. It's always been one of my favorite movies.
Cats
My XABF used to love the film "Leaving Las Vegas".
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I feel the same way about the song "Hate Me" by Blue October. Granted, it's not a movie, but it evokes the same feelings for me. It literally makes the hair on my neck stand on end when it comes on the radio.
That song is the epitomy of an addicts self wallowing and complete disregard for those who love them.
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Hate Me lyrics
(”Hi Justin, this is your mother, and it's 2:33 on Monday afternoon.
I was just calling to see how you ware doing.
You sounded really uptight last night.
It made me a little nervous, and a l... and... well... it made me nervous, it sounded like you were nervous, too.
I just wanted to make sure you were really OK,
And wanted to see if you were checking in on your medication.
You know I love you, and...
Take care honey
I know you're under a lot of pressure.
See ya. Bye bye”)
I have to block out thoughts of you so I don’t lose my head
They crawl in like a cockroach leaving babies in my bed
Dropping little reels of tape to remind me that I’m alone
Playing movies in my head that make a porno feel like home
There's a burning in my pride, a nervous bleeding in my brain
An ounce of peace is all I want for you. Will you never call again?
And will you never say that you love me just to put it in my face?
And will you never try to reach me?
It is I that wanted space
Hate me today
Hate me tomorrow
Hate me for all the things I didn't do for you
Hate me in ways
Yeah ways hard to swallow
Hate me so you can finally see what’s good for you
I’m sober now for 3 whole months it’s one accomplishment that you helped me with
The one thing that always tore us apart is the one thing I won’t touch again
In a sick way I want to thank you for holding my head up late at night
While I was busy waging wars on myself, you were trying to stop the fight
You never doubted my warped opinions on things like suicidal hate
You made me compliment myself when it was way too hard to take
So I’ll drive so ******* far away that I never cross your mind
And do whatever it takes in your heart to leave me behind
Hate me today
Hate me tomorrow
Hate me for all the things I didn’t do for you
Hate me in ways
Yeah ways hard to swallow
Hate me so you can finally see what’s good for you
And with a sad heart I say bye to you and wave
Kicking shadows on the street for every mistake that I had made
And like a baby boy I never was a man
Until I saw your blue eyes cry and I held your face in my hand
And then I fell down yelling “Make it go away!”
Just make a smile come back and shine just like it used to be
And then she whispered “How can you do this to me?”
Hate me today
Hate me tomorrow
Hate me for all the things I didn’t do for you
Hate me in ways
Yeah ways hard to swallow
Hate me so you can finally see what’s good for you
I was just calling to see how you ware doing.
You sounded really uptight last night.
It made me a little nervous, and a l... and... well... it made me nervous, it sounded like you were nervous, too.
I just wanted to make sure you were really OK,
And wanted to see if you were checking in on your medication.
You know I love you, and...
Take care honey
I know you're under a lot of pressure.
See ya. Bye bye”)
I have to block out thoughts of you so I don’t lose my head
They crawl in like a cockroach leaving babies in my bed
Dropping little reels of tape to remind me that I’m alone
Playing movies in my head that make a porno feel like home
There's a burning in my pride, a nervous bleeding in my brain
An ounce of peace is all I want for you. Will you never call again?
And will you never say that you love me just to put it in my face?
And will you never try to reach me?
It is I that wanted space
Hate me today
Hate me tomorrow
Hate me for all the things I didn't do for you
Hate me in ways
Yeah ways hard to swallow
Hate me so you can finally see what’s good for you
I’m sober now for 3 whole months it’s one accomplishment that you helped me with
The one thing that always tore us apart is the one thing I won’t touch again
In a sick way I want to thank you for holding my head up late at night
While I was busy waging wars on myself, you were trying to stop the fight
You never doubted my warped opinions on things like suicidal hate
You made me compliment myself when it was way too hard to take
So I’ll drive so ******* far away that I never cross your mind
And do whatever it takes in your heart to leave me behind
Hate me today
Hate me tomorrow
Hate me for all the things I didn’t do for you
Hate me in ways
Yeah ways hard to swallow
Hate me so you can finally see what’s good for you
And with a sad heart I say bye to you and wave
Kicking shadows on the street for every mistake that I had made
And like a baby boy I never was a man
Until I saw your blue eyes cry and I held your face in my hand
And then I fell down yelling “Make it go away!”
Just make a smile come back and shine just like it used to be
And then she whispered “How can you do this to me?”
Hate me today
Hate me tomorrow
Hate me for all the things I didn’t do for you
Hate me in ways
Yeah ways hard to swallow
Hate me so you can finally see what’s good for you
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When a man loves a woman is not one of my favorites because it strikes to close to home for me. Parts of that movie remind me of my AW so much it is eerie.
Seriously parts of that movie are like I wrote it.
Seriously parts of that movie are like I wrote it.
I guess I can hijack this thread since I started it - those lyrics and the "waaaaaa" reaction reminds me of something my son said to me while we were listening to my Nirvana tunes in the car:
"Mom, how can you stand these guys? Kurt Cobain was such a whiner!"
lol - at least the kid doesn't identify with suicidal lyrics
"Mom, how can you stand these guys? Kurt Cobain was such a whiner!"
lol - at least the kid doesn't identify with suicidal lyrics
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