I NEED SR family advice......
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Seattle, wa
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I NEED SR family advice......
I have been posting on here for a few months now. I have grown a lot, I have been givin great advice. I read posts from newbies now and think wow I reemmber when I thought or felt that way.
But like tonight I read some threads and read the pain or wonderful comments from others to them about their process or their pain. And then something rings just too true to my heart or soul and I think of my exA and bust into tears. I wish as each one falls hate the fact that they are falling. I dont want the tears for my past anylonger......
I dont want to read threads that bring up such pain still when I knwo he is at home and feels nothing for me! Its not fair.....
But like tonight I read some threads and read the pain or wonderful comments from others to them about their process or their pain. And then something rings just too true to my heart or soul and I think of my exA and bust into tears. I wish as each one falls hate the fact that they are falling. I dont want the tears for my past anylonger......
I dont want to read threads that bring up such pain still when I knwo he is at home and feels nothing for me! Its not fair.....
the girl can't help it
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: splendraville
Posts: 5,599
I just went and read several of your past post and you seem to have done very well. I thought to myself now there is a girl who has pulled herself up by the boot straps!!
I imagine there are gonna be those little bumps in the road. Something reminds of them or we remember something they said and we feel that pain again...
I can't always read the newbie post either cause I get really mad at myself all over again...
I imagine there are gonna be those little bumps in the road. Something reminds of them or we remember something they said and we feel that pain again...
I can't always read the newbie post either cause I get really mad at myself all over again...
full of hope
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Oklahoma
Posts: 1,170
Hey Sthrnraizd, It is painful to hear someone starting at the beginning when you weren't there too long ago yourself.
But you are doing sooo great!! Maybe you just need to avoid the newbie post until you are stronger. One thing about them, though, IMO, is that they help remind me how far I've come. Oh, some days I still feel like a newbie but other days I can read them and think, I remember when I felt like that and realize I don't anymore.
If I've learned one thing on here--this life is a journey, a process. And you are doiing great!
But you are doing sooo great!! Maybe you just need to avoid the newbie post until you are stronger. One thing about them, though, IMO, is that they help remind me how far I've come. Oh, some days I still feel like a newbie but other days I can read them and think, I remember when I felt like that and realize I don't anymore.
If I've learned one thing on here--this life is a journey, a process. And you are doiing great!
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Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: OHIO
Posts: 959
Ahhhh sweetie hang in there...yes it hurts when we care soooo much for someone who couldnt care less for us but life has to move forward not backward....the others are right. You have moved mountains as far as moving forward so don't you even think about back stepping ok. Forward is gooooood. Hang in there and stay strong.
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