Oh my God, my husband is never coming home...

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Old 04-20-2003, 12:52 PM
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My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your daughter. I've been reading your posts and felt so distraught for you.

I am relieved that his body was found so you can have some kind of a closure.

My prayers are with you.

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Old 04-20-2003, 01:12 PM
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I know that the closure will be a comfort to you in time.Meanwhile I wish you peace,and strength and good friends to stand with you.My young son's father died 2 months ago,so I know what a terrible aching loss that is.There is so much to miss....

Take care of yourself,and keep posting here...we care about you.

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Old 04-20-2003, 01:17 PM
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****{Mariposa}}}

I am so very sorry that this had a tragic ending, and pray that you will be comforted knowing that he is safe with God. Easter is the time to remember that all our sins have already been forgiven and I have no doubt that he is now a special angel who will watch over you and your children. Sometimes I think that God looks down on an addict and just says that it is time to come Home and suffer no more.

My prayers will be with you and your children as you go through the next difficult period and that your grief will be lessened knowing that God is with you all.

Just know that we are all there with you, in our thoughts and prayers, and wish we could be there in person to hug you and let you know how much we care and love you.

May you find peace and healing and may the wonderful memories remain with you all to comfort you in days to come.
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Old 04-20-2003, 02:23 PM
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mariposa..I am so very sorry for what you and your family are going through right now.

You will all be in our prayers!

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Old 04-20-2003, 03:01 PM
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Thank God they found him.

The next few days will be so full... we will all be here for you when it gets quiet again.

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Old 04-20-2003, 04:32 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss...

My thoughts are still with you and your daughter. I wish I could do more. I am glad that you will find some closure and I will pray that your next few days, weeks and months go as easy as possible for you and your family.
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Old 04-20-2003, 05:38 PM
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My Deepest sympathies, i am at a loss for words,

your family are in my prayers

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Old 04-20-2003, 05:48 PM
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(((((((((Mariposa)))))))))))
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Old 04-20-2003, 06:05 PM
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(((mariposa))))
I am so very sorry. You may be far away physically, but please know that we are near in our thoughts and prayers. If we can do anything to be of comfort for you and your little one, please tell us. I know your life is a whirlwind right now, but I pray God will give you the serenity only He can provide.
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Old 04-20-2003, 06:10 PM
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I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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Old 04-20-2003, 06:49 PM
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(((((((Mariposa)))))))

I will continue to pray for you and your daughter. God bless you and your family.

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Old 04-20-2003, 07:04 PM
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(((((((Mariposa)))))))

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that during his time of pain and healing you will know that we are always here for you to turn to whenever you need us.
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Old 04-20-2003, 07:19 PM
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(((Mariposa)))

Sending you and baby lots of hugs! And, some warm, freshly baked chocolate chip oatmeal cookies.

Peace be with you.
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Old 04-21-2003, 01:10 AM
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Old 04-21-2003, 08:42 AM
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I wanted to add my condolences, I am so sorry for your loss.

best to you and your little one,
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Old 04-21-2003, 08:56 AM
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Oh sweetie......

It is hard to contain the tears I had as I read your last note - I am so sorry it had to end this way, but God did answer one of your request by them finding the body.....

Just know that just because he is gone does not mean that you will loose us as a support group....We will always be here for you!

Here is lots of love and hugs today!


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Old 04-21-2003, 09:24 AM
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Mariposa,

As I sit here with tears rolling down my face, my first thought is you saying he told you he had asked Jesus into his heart...that is the single most improtant thing he did while on this earth. Our time here is so short compaired to the time we spend in eternity. Try to take comfort in the fact that you will be reunited with him one day and that time will last forever with no addiction or pain! I will pray for God to give you and your daughter strength and peace.

God bless you, Exhausted
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Old 04-21-2003, 09:46 AM
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As I sit here with tears rolling down my face, my first thought is you saying he told you he asked Jesus into his heart...that is the single most important thing he did while on this earth. Our time here is so short compaired to the time we spend in eternity. Try to take comfort in the fact that you will be reunited with him one day and that time will last for ever without addiction or pain! I will pray for God to give you and your daughter strength and peace.

God bless you, Exhausted
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Old 04-21-2003, 09:49 AM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am so sorry that you are going through all of this. I pray for strength for you and peace for you and your family.
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Old 04-21-2003, 10:19 AM
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May God bless you and your family with the comfort of knowing that he is now at peace.

May your memories of him be of the love, laughter and happiness you shared.

I will keep you and baby in my prayers.
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