Please help quickly...
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Visiting my mom, who doesn’t know of my issue. I’m at 257 days. She’s ordered wine. We used to drink wine together. It’s cold, snowy, and I’m feeling bored. Just bored. I think drinking would be fun and comforting. I know it would be actually. It would.
but I know I can’t. So I’m asking for help. That’s what everyone says to do. I feel like the decision is out of my hands. Like I’m destined to drink. I always think I’m past this. ****.
but I know I can’t. So I’m asking for help. That’s what everyone says to do. I feel like the decision is out of my hands. Like I’m destined to drink. I always think I’m past this. ****.
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she won’t understand. My dad died of addiction from smoking. Never understood. She doesn’t get/believe in addiction.
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regardless if she would though, I want to.
You wouldn't have posted if you did.
The Beast wants you to.
Hi Sohard
My dad and I used to drink together too - not to excess - but while one or two would be more than enough for him, my Beast was awakened. When I could, as soon as I could, I'd go back to drinking round the clock
I don't think he really understands why I'm not drinking, but he did get a 'no thanks'. I think it took a while, but he's ok with it now.
I'm all for being s nice guy - I'm even ok with people pleasing sometimes - but not when it might mean my destruction.
Use an excuse if you'd rather not open the whole alcoholic issue right now, but say no.
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My dad and I used to drink together too - not to excess - but while one or two would be more than enough for him, my Beast was awakened. When I could, as soon as I could, I'd go back to drinking round the clock
I don't think he really understands why I'm not drinking, but he did get a 'no thanks'. I think it took a while, but he's ok with it now.
I'm all for being s nice guy - I'm even ok with people pleasing sometimes - but not when it might mean my destruction.
Use an excuse if you'd rather not open the whole alcoholic issue right now, but say no.
D
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Hi Sohard
My dad and I used to drink together too - not to excess - but while one or two would be more than enough for him, my Beast was awakened. When I could, as soon as I could, I'd go back to drinking round the clock
I don't think he really understands why I'm not drinking, but he did get a 'no thanks'. I think it took a while, but he's ok with it now.
I'm all for being s nice guy - I'm even ok with people pleasing sometimes - but not when it might mean my destruction.
Use an excuse if you'd rather not open the whole alcoholic issue right now, but say no.
D
My dad and I used to drink together too - not to excess - but while one or two would be more than enough for him, my Beast was awakened. When I could, as soon as I could, I'd go back to drinking round the clock
I don't think he really understands why I'm not drinking, but he did get a 'no thanks'. I think it took a while, but he's ok with it now.
I'm all for being s nice guy - I'm even ok with people pleasing sometimes - but not when it might mean my destruction.
Use an excuse if you'd rather not open the whole alcoholic issue right now, but say no.
D
You quit for a reason...think back. Don’t fool yourself. Think about how you’ll feel the next day when you wake up if you drink. All those days stacked up gone. I’m on day 17 and going strong right now but what scares me is the type of scenario you’re in right now. You can do this!
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Its just one glass of wine
Surely this wouldn't hurt
Its a special occasion with my Mom, thats a good reason right ?
Its cold and I'm bored, wine might help
I'm betting that is whats going through your mind.
False evidence.
Surely this wouldn't hurt
Its a special occasion with my Mom, thats a good reason right ?
Its cold and I'm bored, wine might help
I'm betting that is whats going through your mind.
False evidence.
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