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Old 01-04-2018, 09:45 PM
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Ya'll are rid of me...

at least for 30 days. Entering rehab tomorrow without any support (financially or emotionally) from my spouse. I know most here don't care, but this is a big deal to me and a big expense my parents are forking over. I hope you can at least hope I succeed rather than think I'll be like many of the failing spouses represented on this board. Hope should always be championed. I wish you all solace with you rproblems too. Peace out.
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Old 01-04-2018, 09:57 PM
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I'm sorry you feel you were badly treated here babescake.

I think early recovery is a pretty emotional time for everyone - addicts and families alike.

who knows - you might see things differently in a month or two.

I'm sure everyone here wishes you the best, and again, I wish you well

See you when you get back

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Old 01-04-2018, 10:18 PM
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I wish you nothing but luck and hope you return to us with good news and hope for your future.
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Old 01-04-2018, 10:42 PM
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I care. Rehab is great, so great I went twice. haha Best of luck and you show them all that you are a warrior!
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Old 01-05-2018, 12:57 AM
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Babescake, I am an alcoholic myself but I like to read the friends and family posts to see from the other side and I have read a couple of your posts. I personally would like to wish you all the luck in rehab. I am only 6 weeks sober myself after tryibg and failing to quit soo many times. I am literally scared out of my mind to ever drink again. after what my last binges brought but need to start in the proper recovery work now. But enough of me (!) It shows strength and courage in my opinion to enter into a rehab facility. I am sorry you don't have the emotional support from your spouse but YOU are doing this for YOU and YOU will be better and stronger for it! Please keep us updated! Good luck x
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I really wish you luck and all the best babes. You sound brave and determined to me. Please come back and let us know how you are. Gabe x
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Best of luck, Babes!
We are all on your side and want you to succeed! Please stay in touch and let us know how things are going! You are already a champion for standing up for your right to get help and your bravery to go out and get it! That take guts! You are Champion strong! Keep your head up! Every day in every way you are getting better and better! We care about you!♡
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All the best to you. I know you can do this.
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Take this opportunity to receive the
gift of recovery to listen, learn, absorb
and apply the knowledge and tools
taught to you during this time to begin
building a strong, solid foundation to
live your life upon once you return
home.

Keep and open mind, remain willing
and honest during this process and
with change there will be many awesome
rewards and promises waiting for
you to enjoy and cherish along your
journey in life and recovery.

This recovery and new life is yours.

I hope you will return to share
your ESH - experiences, strengths
and hopes down the road with us.
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Old 01-05-2018, 03:57 AM
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I see lots of support for you on this thread, and several others. I am excited for you to have this opportunity to truly embrace sobriety and get strong recovery plan on place.
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Old 01-05-2018, 04:26 AM
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We do care and we have been supportive even if what we have said is not what you wanted to hear . I hope in time you will see that. I really sincerely wish you well in rehab and hope that you are one of the success stories. You can do this.
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Old 01-05-2018, 04:29 AM
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We all wish you well. Sometime in the future, when you have experienced a great deal of recovery, you will see that we were supportive, we did care, and what we said was all true.

Best of luck to you, and your family.

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Old 01-05-2018, 04:38 AM
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I sincerely hope that rehab is a success for you - very best wishes for a healthy future for you all.
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Old 01-05-2018, 05:50 AM
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Rehab is an opportunity/option I did not have.
Some people do rehab multiple times,
but all it takes is the willingness to stay clean and sober
and the gift of desperation,
rehab or no rehab.
You can be a success story.
Meeting makers make it.
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Old 01-05-2018, 05:52 AM
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Babescake, I do wish your family all the success that rehab offers.
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Old 01-05-2018, 06:09 AM
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Wishing you every success in rehab!
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Old 01-05-2018, 06:14 AM
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I too wish you success in rehab.
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Old 01-05-2018, 06:32 AM
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You got this, wishing you the best in Rehab!!!!!
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Old 01-05-2018, 08:41 AM
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So happy that you are doing this Babescakes. I like hope but I prefer actions such as you are doing.

Come back and provide support for those who will come behind you.
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All the best to you, Babescake!

Keeping you in my,thoughts and prayers!

You are doing a fantastic thing.
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