Unsupportive spouse
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Unsupportive spouse
First time posting. I am a opiate addict. I am an alcoholic when I don't have my opiates. I am young. Second time in recovery. 10 yrs ago as a teen I abused everything. Sober for 3 years. Drinking turned ugly. My second marriage turned ugly. I started opiates for an injury and couldn't stop. For 2 years I have been a hardcore opiate user. I'm functional but not really "present". I have huge guilt for what I've done around and to my kids. Lying to my husband who never knew I was high. As well as my family. He started problems in our marriage and of course I turn to booze then when I found the pills I was in heaven. It turned to hell. Now I'm going to an inpatient program in a couple days. My husband is sober always has been. He continues to curse at me fight with me get mad I go to AA says it's a choice etc etc. how do I make it the next 2 days without using or losing my mind and temper?! Please help
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Hi Opiaddict
I'm glad to hear you;re going to treatment - I think that's a great decision.
I'm sorry your husband is cursing and fighting with you.
That's definitely something to look at, but probably when you come out of treatment.
For the next little while I'd try focus on you, and use the support here if things get too much at home over the next couple of days.
Feel free to join our Class of February support thread
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...art-3-a-2.html
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I'm glad to hear you;re going to treatment - I think that's a great decision.
I'm sorry your husband is cursing and fighting with you.
That's definitely something to look at, but probably when you come out of treatment.
For the next little while I'd try focus on you, and use the support here if things get too much at home over the next couple of days.
Feel free to join our Class of February support thread
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...art-3-a-2.html
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Thank you so much everyone. He refuses to go to Al Anon. I've been in outpatient for the past 3 weeks and go to meetings constantly and he doesn't ask me one question about any of it. He ignores me most of the time until recently he is just so mean and so vile and so hurtful. Im trying to stay home as less as possible so Im not around him until I go away. Now hes threatening not to take me to the facility. Trying to stay busy .... I already relapsed bc I cant deal with him. Im counting down the days until I go away.
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