Reading into It?
Reading into It?
My RAH moved out and it wasn't a good split. No Goodbye and No Closure. We have been basically No Contact for a month except a few texts he sent. He finally mailed something to my daughter that he said he would. He text her: did you get it then she said yes, thanks. Then later on that night he text her: You can sooo be yourself and just tell me when you want to hang out. She is 17 and felt awkward regarding this text and mostly said to me: Is he Insane?? Can i change my number?.. She has been thru alot regarding his addiction and erratic recovery.
I felt "worried" about his text to her... and wondered about his motives especially after the way he left our home.
Overreacting??
I felt "worried" about his text to her... and wondered about his motives especially after the way he left our home.
Overreacting??
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I had to go back and read some of your previous posts...he's the couch, pillows, bed, child's lap-top thief?
I would change her phone number if that's what she wants. she is not legally his child and his remorse can keep for a few months or years...right now he sounds "stalkerish"
I think the phone company will do this for free immediately if you report the circumstances
I would change her phone number if that's what she wants. she is not legally his child and his remorse can keep for a few months or years...right now he sounds "stalkerish"
I think the phone company will do this for free immediately if you report the circumstances
Thanks for the replies.. I'm just not balanced yet. For soo long i accepted wrong for right, right for wrong, took blame, blamed, overreacted, underreacted..etc...
I shot off an email to him requesting that "All" of us, me, my son and my daughter would like NO contact. We would like the way he left be his final Goodbye, no explaination needed and no contact at this time.
He replied.. i deleted it without opening it
As for the "D" paperwork, as soon as i recover from replacing my household goods that will be filed.
I shot off an email to him requesting that "All" of us, me, my son and my daughter would like NO contact. We would like the way he left be his final Goodbye, no explaination needed and no contact at this time.
He replied.. i deleted it without opening it
As for the "D" paperwork, as soon as i recover from replacing my household goods that will be filed.
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