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Old 08-18-2011, 08:38 AM
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Reading into It?

My RAH moved out and it wasn't a good split. No Goodbye and No Closure. We have been basically No Contact for a month except a few texts he sent. He finally mailed something to my daughter that he said he would. He text her: did you get it then she said yes, thanks. Then later on that night he text her: You can sooo be yourself and just tell me when you want to hang out. She is 17 and felt awkward regarding this text and mostly said to me: Is he Insane?? Can i change my number?.. She has been thru alot regarding his addiction and erratic recovery.

I felt "worried" about his text to her... and wondered about his motives especially after the way he left our home.

Overreacting??
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Old 08-18-2011, 09:20 AM
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I had to go back and read some of your previous posts...he's the couch, pillows, bed, child's lap-top thief?

I would change her phone number if that's what she wants. she is not legally his child and his remorse can keep for a few months or years...right now he sounds "stalkerish"

I think the phone company will do this for free immediately if you report the circumstances
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Old 08-18-2011, 12:30 PM
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I do not like the sound of this, it creeps me out. She can block his number, if she cannot do it on her phone, she can call the provider and they will do.
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Old 08-18-2011, 12:41 PM
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I have to agree, this reads real high on the creep-meter for me.
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Thanks for the replies.. I'm just not balanced yet. For soo long i accepted wrong for right, right for wrong, took blame, blamed, overreacted, underreacted..etc...
I shot off an email to him requesting that "All" of us, me, my son and my daughter would like NO contact. We would like the way he left be his final Goodbye, no explaination needed and no contact at this time.
He replied.. i deleted it without opening it

As for the "D" paperwork, as soon as i recover from replacing my household goods that will be filed.
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Old 08-18-2011, 03:17 PM
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Please let her change her number...just telling the creep to leave ya'll alone certainly doesn't guarantee any protection.
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