It's time
It's time
Well.... I took the day off yesterday and because I was home when the mail came...... I got to look at his bank statement before he could shred it. This is the account he has at a credit union that I am not on.
I had felt sick when I realized how much he had gambled out of our joint account but that was nothing compared to this account. Between the two accounts he managed to take $5500.00 in ATM's. Most of that was a settlement he got so it was not out of the pay check BUT.... When the settlement runs out you know what will happen.
I will be seeing my counceler this Thursday and an Atterney on Monday. In the mean time, I plan to confront him and tell him I can not and will not live like this. Either he stops and gets help withe the drinking and gambling or I want a divorce. No if's and's or but's. Done.
Don't worry, I wont get my hopes up because I know he wont just say yes. As a matter of fact he will most likely get pissed off and say do what you think it right and then try to guilt me somehow.
All I can say is please pray for me. That I can stay strong and follow through.
D
I had felt sick when I realized how much he had gambled out of our joint account but that was nothing compared to this account. Between the two accounts he managed to take $5500.00 in ATM's. Most of that was a settlement he got so it was not out of the pay check BUT.... When the settlement runs out you know what will happen.
I will be seeing my counceler this Thursday and an Atterney on Monday. In the mean time, I plan to confront him and tell him I can not and will not live like this. Either he stops and gets help withe the drinking and gambling or I want a divorce. No if's and's or but's. Done.
Don't worry, I wont get my hopes up because I know he wont just say yes. As a matter of fact he will most likely get pissed off and say do what you think it right and then try to guilt me somehow.
All I can say is please pray for me. That I can stay strong and follow through.
D
I will be seeing my counceler this Thursday and an Atterney on Monday. In the mean time, I plan to confront him and tell him I can not and will not live like this. Either he stops and gets help withe the drinking and gambling or I want a divorce. No if's and's or but's. Done.
Don't worry, I wont get my hopes up because I know he wont just say yes. As a matter of fact he will most likely get pissed off and say do what you think it right and then try to guilt me somehow.
All I can say is please pray for me. That I can stay strong and follow through.
L
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