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Old 12-19-2017, 01:52 PM
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Day 12 Here

12 days sober, doing ok, but have had moments where I think, man one beer would be so nice right now(usually when Im feeling stressed out), but I know that will only lead to more beers and trouble.

Anyone else feel angry that they cant control their drinking?

I would love to just have 2-3 beers, get mellow and stop there, but yeah my brain doesn't work that way
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Old 12-19-2017, 01:54 PM
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No no no no
i have made that bad choice too many times!
One is never enough. I blew 2 months of sobriety because I grabbed a beer or 2 then 50 for a 6 day binge.
Suffering now on Day 2.
Don't go there. We are not normal drinkers.
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Old 12-19-2017, 01:56 PM
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No no no no
i have made that bad choice too many times!
Yeah I know I cant just have one, trying hard not to make that choice again!
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Old 12-19-2017, 01:57 PM
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Congrats on day 12 LFCNZ. I used to feel angry that I can't be a "normal drinker". Now that I've been sober for a while though it's just who I am and I'm OK with that. You are right, it will never be just "one or two" - good idea coming here to talk it through.
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Old 12-19-2017, 03:07 PM
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Congrats on day 12 LFCNZ. I used to feel angry that I can't be a "normal drinker". Now that I've been sober for a while though it's just who I am and I'm OK with that. You are right, it will never be just "one or two" - good idea coming here to talk it through.
Thanks, yeah using these forums for a bit of support when I am feeling the urge, find it helps me realize Im not the only one battling this.

Do you know if there is a thread on here talking about peoples drinking history and how they ended up realizing they were alcoholics?

Dont want to start a new thread if there is one already.
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Old 12-19-2017, 03:22 PM
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I think most of us felt angry in the beginning. Its not easy giving up the familiar even if that familiar is not often that great,

The more I experienced sobriety tho the more I realised what a gift it was.

Things get better - trust me

as for one drink - I can't remember any occasion where I has one drink - can you?

In any case - it's the first drink that causes all the damage not the last.
I'm really glad I realised that eventually

you can do this

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