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Old 03-23-2015, 06:39 AM
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Can I ask for a couple hugs

I was in a minor car accident and have to go to a hearing. No alcohol involved and no injuries but just stressfull and testing my sobriety.
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Old 03-23-2015, 06:45 AM
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I will be praying. Try not to stress. It is going to be okay. You got this.
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Old 03-23-2015, 06:48 AM
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It will be over in no time. Don't forget to breathe.
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Old 03-23-2015, 06:57 AM
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No alcohol involved and no injuries
This was a blessing, no one hurt. A minor accident. Emphasis on minor. Don't freak out.

(((otter)))
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Old 03-23-2015, 07:00 AM
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Thanks

The last time I was in trouble was in when I was in the the Marines for a bar brawl and it's bringing back old memories.

Tough guys need hugs too. Probably more because they don't ask. I can just feel myself slipping.
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Old 03-23-2015, 07:03 AM
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Great big hug- imagine if you'd been drinking. You've put yourself in a position where a traffic accident really is just minor. Congratulate yourself.
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Old 03-23-2015, 07:06 AM
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We got your back man. Court hearings are stressful, no need to drink though.
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Old 03-23-2015, 07:06 AM
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I'm so glad that everyone is okay. Consider me sending you virtual hugs all day long, Mr Tough Guy!!! I love that you asked and I love that you can stand strong on your sobriety at the hearing. You got this.
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Old 03-23-2015, 07:14 AM
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I'm super glad I chose the little kittens hugging for an ex Marine.

I recently got triggered when I had to appear for jury duty. The event that triggered me was 45 years ago, so I get it that you are having bad flashbacks. Police, judges, attorneys.

You'll come out okay. Be honest and humble.
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Old 03-23-2015, 07:40 AM
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Thanks guys.

Long story short I rubbed bumpers with a car going around a turn. The officer was young and over the top. Maybe my life has been too simple the last couple months but for some reason that made me want to dive in and get western.

Thanks again. I'll pass on the booze today.
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I memorized this prayer
early on in recovery to use
and say at anytime or anyplace.

Saying this gave me a sense
of peace and calmness so that
the stresses of daily life wouldn't
get the best of me and could and
would remain sober no matter what.


God, I offer myself to Thee
To build with me & to do
with me as Thou wilt. Relieve
me of the bondage of self, that
I may better do Thy will.
Take away my difficulties, that
victory over them may bear
witness to those I would help
of Thy Power, Thy love & Thy
way of life. May I do Thy will always.
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Old 03-23-2015, 08:07 AM
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Thanks

The last time I was in trouble was in when I was in the the Marines for a bar brawl and it's bringing back old memories.

Tough guys need hugs too. Probably more because they don't ask. I can just feel myself slipping.
thanks reminds me I should ask for them more often.

it'll work out. dont go off the deep end its just a bump in the road.
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Old 03-23-2015, 08:13 AM
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We got your back man. Court hearings are stressful, no need to drink though.
Good one, Stratman.
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Old 03-23-2015, 08:23 AM
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we got you otter

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Old 03-23-2015, 08:25 AM
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(((otter)))); it's going to be okay.
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Old 03-23-2015, 08:50 AM
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Otter...I hear you. Bring a squeezey ball for any excess adrenaline surges you may experience. Let this hearing come and go.
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(((((Hugs for the tough guy!!!))))
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Old 03-23-2015, 11:46 AM
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Thank you guys. No slips. Just needed a hug today. you guys rock
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Sorry for the accident. Hope all is well and will continue to be Otter

take care,
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Old 03-23-2015, 03:59 PM
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I'm glad you didn't go western and I totally get what you mean....big 'ol hug coming your way
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