My Wife is leaving me
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Join Date: Aug 2014
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Breath, I am so sorry.
What u need to do is just take care of you. Her head is messed up, and by u minding your own biz and working your program it will turn out the way it is suppose to be. Not sure where that is leading, but keep reaching out for support and keep your side of the street clean.
Also give this to your higher power as u are not in the control seat.
What u need to do is just take care of you. Her head is messed up, and by u minding your own biz and working your program it will turn out the way it is suppose to be. Not sure where that is leading, but keep reaching out for support and keep your side of the street clean.
Also give this to your higher power as u are not in the control seat.
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Join Date: Dec 2012
Location: Illinois
Posts: 58
Very sorry to hear this Breath, it's a very hard pill to swallow when you spent 25 years with someone who obviously doesn't know what a good marriage is about, I wasted my time on an ex for 4 years, and was devastated when she cheated and left me for another man, but if she hadn't done me like that, I would have never started dating my fiance and we have two kids together, and are very happy together, so you just gotta take the good with the bad and think about the pros and not the cons of it. I know when it happened to me, I hit the bottle VERY hard for a month straight because I didn't know what else to do, I was very weak, and in a bad place in my life. Even if she realizes shes making a mistake, I would not take her back, never know what else she would do behind your back, god bless my friend and hope all works out for you.
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Join Date: Apr 2013
Location: Ohio
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I am so sorry Breath.
This is a firm reminder that even people that don't drink can also be sick.
She is running away. I can see it because I have done it so many times in my own life. Maybe not in the same way she has but I ran never the less. Instead of having to deal with what was in front of me, mainly me, I ran. I ran from relationship to relationship looking for that piece that was missing and I never knew all long that I had to love or at the very least, like myself. To be comfortable with me. I was always looking for someone else to fill the void.
It does not make the pain any less but try and look at her as a sick person. Pray for her and move on with your life as best you can and above all else, don't drink.
This is a firm reminder that even people that don't drink can also be sick.
She is running away. I can see it because I have done it so many times in my own life. Maybe not in the same way she has but I ran never the less. Instead of having to deal with what was in front of me, mainly me, I ran. I ran from relationship to relationship looking for that piece that was missing and I never knew all long that I had to love or at the very least, like myself. To be comfortable with me. I was always looking for someone else to fill the void.
It does not make the pain any less but try and look at her as a sick person. Pray for her and move on with your life as best you can and above all else, don't drink.
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