What's wrong with me?
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What's wrong with me?
Hi I'm 27 year old male and I've been a heavy drinker since I was 17, lately I've been having severe episodes of depression, fatigue, confusion and a "there is something wrong in my head" feeling everytime a couple of days without drinking have gone by.
At first I thought I was sick, so I went and spent over a month looking for a disease that just wasn't there, then I started thinking it was alcoholic abstinence.
Then I accomplished 4 weeks without a single drink, but nothing happened as I still felt like ****. So I started drinking again.
The only moments I have a clear head is when Im drinking. And its getting worse.
I don't know what to do, I don't know where to go. I am lost.
At first I thought I was sick, so I went and spent over a month looking for a disease that just wasn't there, then I started thinking it was alcoholic abstinence.
Then I accomplished 4 weeks without a single drink, but nothing happened as I still felt like ****. So I started drinking again.
The only moments I have a clear head is when Im drinking. And its getting worse.
I don't know what to do, I don't know where to go. I am lost.
Detox safely with the help of a physician and get a consult from a mental health professional regarding the depression (which may be causing the fatigue and confusion). You may have two separate, but related problems.
Welcome to SR.
If you had posted before you resumed drinking, I would have suggested that you see your doctor and eliminate depression or some other medical reason for feeling like ****. Because it's not sobriety that's the problem. If you have a problem that is solved by drinking, you have a drinking problem.
Give sobriety another try. And see your doctor. If you don't have a medical reason for feeling like ****, then maybe it's untreated alcoholism you are suffering from.
Give sobriety another try. And see your doctor. If you don't have a medical reason for feeling like ****, then maybe it's untreated alcoholism you are suffering from.
Joez,
No one here can give medical advice, but I can say from experience that early sobriety is rough: mood swings, inability to concentrate, listlessness, etc. What you have described is not inconsistent with withdrawal. The thing that surprised me most about early sobriety was how much and how long it took to physiologically get over drinking. For me, it took over six months to really improve. In light of that perhaps the question is not whether alcohol is the issue, but whether you have underestimated the extent to which it is an issue.
No one here can give medical advice, but I can say from experience that early sobriety is rough: mood swings, inability to concentrate, listlessness, etc. What you have described is not inconsistent with withdrawal. The thing that surprised me most about early sobriety was how much and how long it took to physiologically get over drinking. For me, it took over six months to really improve. In light of that perhaps the question is not whether alcohol is the issue, but whether you have underestimated the extent to which it is an issue.
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Welcome to SR.
If you had posted before you resumed drinking, I would have suggested that you see your doctor and eliminate depression or some other medical reason for feeling like ****. Because it's not sobriety that's the problem. If you have a problem that is solved by drinking, you have a drinking problem.
Give sobriety another try. And see your doctor. If you don't have a medical reason for feeling like ****, then maybe it's untreated alcoholism you are suffering from.
If you had posted before you resumed drinking, I would have suggested that you see your doctor and eliminate depression or some other medical reason for feeling like ****. Because it's not sobriety that's the problem. If you have a problem that is solved by drinking, you have a drinking problem.
Give sobriety another try. And see your doctor. If you don't have a medical reason for feeling like ****, then maybe it's untreated alcoholism you are suffering from.
Joez,
No one here can give medical advice, but I can say from experience that early sobriety is rough: mood swings, inability to concentrate, listlessness, etc. What you have described is not inconsistent with withdrawal. The thing that surprised me most about early sobriety was how much and how long it took to physiologically get over drinking. For me, it took over six months to really improve. In light of that perhaps the question is not whether alcohol is the issue, but whether you have underestimated the extent to which it is an issue.
No one here can give medical advice, but I can say from experience that early sobriety is rough: mood swings, inability to concentrate, listlessness, etc. What you have described is not inconsistent with withdrawal. The thing that surprised me most about early sobriety was how much and how long it took to physiologically get over drinking. For me, it took over six months to really improve. In light of that perhaps the question is not whether alcohol is the issue, but whether you have underestimated the extent to which it is an issue.
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It can get better.
Nobody here is able to tell you what your problem is for sure.
But if it's a drink problem, the best thing is to stop drinking.
If it's depression, it's best to stop drinking. At least until you and your doctor get a handle on it.
But alcohol addiction and depression are both very treatable.
But if it's a drink problem, the best thing is to stop drinking.
If it's depression, it's best to stop drinking. At least until you and your doctor get a handle on it.
But alcohol addiction and depression are both very treatable.
Welcome to the Forum Joez, great to have you here!!
When you say "nothing happened" after 4 weeks, what did you expect to happen? 10 years of drinking can't be fixed and the body can't be healed in only 28 days, it's gonna take a longer amount of time to see real results. 10 years is a long time in comparison to 4 weeks!!
You can do this though, go at it again, you'll get there!!
When you say "nothing happened" after 4 weeks, what did you expect to happen? 10 years of drinking can't be fixed and the body can't be healed in only 28 days, it's gonna take a longer amount of time to see real results. 10 years is a long time in comparison to 4 weeks!!
You can do this though, go at it again, you'll get there!!
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Thanks everyone, I feel lucky for finding and joining this community seems this is a place you can share stuff that few people actually understand.
Hope to learn a lot. Love the way users support one another.
Hope to learn a lot. Love the way users support one another.
Go to a meeting: Alcoholics Anonymous : Find Local A.A. Preferably an open speaker meeting to start but any will do.
Go early, stay late. Talk to people, tell them you're a newcomer. Get a Big Book ("Alcoholics Anonymous") at the meeting and read it. Get a local meeting list too.
Go early, stay late. Talk to people, tell them you're a newcomer. Get a Big Book ("Alcoholics Anonymous") at the meeting and read it. Get a local meeting list too.
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