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Hey, I'm bang on 6 months and I wish I could say its a magical threshold but it ain't that easy, but it does improve gradually just stick with it my friend.
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Six months did seem to make a bit of difference for me. And at a year, I can appreciate quite a bit of clarity. My mood swings have improved as well. Seems that the kinks can and do work themselves out. Hang in there!
All depends on how much the body had to put up with, it needs time to heal physically, mentally and emotionally so it will be different for everyone!!
Though saying that 6 months is a sizeable chunk of time, keep pushing through and it'll get better with time!!
Though saying that 6 months is a sizeable chunk of time, keep pushing through and it'll get better with time!!
It will come. I remember picking up a guitar a couple months after I quit and literally I would sometimes just sit there knowing exactly where each one of my fingers should go on the fretboard, and knowing which strings to strum...but my brain would just sort of "lock up". Or I'd walk in the basement to get something out of the freezer, and by the time I got there i'd forget what I came there for! Those moments have become much fewer and much farther between - it just takes time for the ol' brain to re-adjust to not being permanently sedated.
GardenDiva, the mindfulness and feeling of being present can be cultivated, and I think that doing so gives us important brain activity, strengthening a part that atrophied due to misuse while we were drinking. Do some googling about mindfulness and addiction, or read Eckhart Tolle The New Earth or The Power of Now. We will get better without this practice of course, but I think that this moves us forward more quickly.
As you become more mindful, you will be aware that you get a little better every day in some way, and that is the important thing. Every day is better than the last one, our future is brighter and more secure and we move forward to health, serenity and happiness. Onward!
As you become more mindful, you will be aware that you get a little better every day in some way, and that is the important thing. Every day is better than the last one, our future is brighter and more secure and we move forward to health, serenity and happiness. Onward!
My first year sober was a remarkable revelation.
Each month I would become more and more aware and alive.
My emotions could be raw sometimes, but it was like life became clearer and clearer on a regular basis.
My brain was no longer under seige and it was thawing gradually.
Stay with it, amigo.
Each month I would become more and more aware and alive.
My emotions could be raw sometimes, but it was like life became clearer and clearer on a regular basis.
My brain was no longer under seige and it was thawing gradually.
Stay with it, amigo.
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It will come. I remember picking up a guitar a couple months after I quit and literally I would sometimes just sit there knowing exactly where each one of my fingers should go on the fretboard, and knowing which strings to strum...but my brain would just sort of "lock up". Or I'd walk in the basement to get something out of the freezer, and by the time I got there i'd forget what I came there for! Those moments have become much fewer and much farther between - it just takes time for the ol' brain to re-adjust to not being permanently sedated.
gardendiva....don't be discouraged. Sometimes I'd even be tempted to drink because it felt like I got more done at work...(stupid, but it felt worse than hangovers sometimes!). I was also very, very clumsy.
Eating well, and persevering it has improved a lot. I actually was very scared in the beginning that the fog was actually all that was left, but it cleared.
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It held somewhat true for me. I came back into being (100% Mental) normal right at 7 months. Hope this helps you out,btw Im just over 8 months now,hang in there. I promise its so so so much better!
Gardendiva,
mindfulness takes practice.
as far as thinking, emotions, fuzzyness, clarity...see if this general map is helpful to you:
The Alcoholism and Addictions Help Forums- by SoberRecovery.com
mindfulness takes practice.
as far as thinking, emotions, fuzzyness, clarity...see if this general map is helpful to you:
The Alcoholism and Addictions Help Forums- by SoberRecovery.com
Gardendiva,
mindfulness takes practice.
as far as thinking, emotions, fuzzyness, clarity...see if this general map is helpful to you:
The Alcoholism and Addictions Help Forums- by SoberRecovery.com
mindfulness takes practice.
as far as thinking, emotions, fuzzyness, clarity...see if this general map is helpful to you:
The Alcoholism and Addictions Help Forums- by SoberRecovery.com
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