What are some of the biggest lies you told yourself while drinking?
That it was okay to spend money my parents gave me to live and lie to them about it, continuously dishonestly wasting their money on things to give myself immediate gratification. I told this lie to myself while sober too.
Here's my most funny lie; that someday I would be a Professional Baseball or Basketball Player. Even though I am 5'4" and 140 lbs at the time. My biggest would be telling my wife time and time again after she would call, that I'm just going to have one more and then I will be home.
All of these....
Many times I said these to myself. Funny thing is I never said them to any one else, well maybe that 12 o'clock somewhere thing, but I think the reason was because I think I knew that I was full of crap!
Many times I said these to myself. Funny thing is I never said them to any one else, well maybe that 12 o'clock somewhere thing, but I think the reason was because I think I knew that I was full of crap!
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1. I will quit tomorrow
2. I'm not that bad
3. I skipped a day so i must not have a big problem
4. All those empty vodka bottles have just accumulated over a HUGE span of time.
5. It hasn't effected me (an affair, divorce and one smashed rear view mirror has NOTHING to do with drinking!)
6. I deserve it because my life's so complicated
7. I did NOT drink tonight.
8. I can't remember the last time I drank
9. I'm not overreacting because I'm drunk
10. No one can smell it. It's vodka.
11. It hasn't effected my work.
12. A pint of vodka a night isn't that bad.
etc.................................
2. I'm not that bad
3. I skipped a day so i must not have a big problem
4. All those empty vodka bottles have just accumulated over a HUGE span of time.
5. It hasn't effected me (an affair, divorce and one smashed rear view mirror has NOTHING to do with drinking!)
6. I deserve it because my life's so complicated
7. I did NOT drink tonight.
8. I can't remember the last time I drank
9. I'm not overreacting because I'm drunk
10. No one can smell it. It's vodka.
11. It hasn't effected my work.
12. A pint of vodka a night isn't that bad.
etc.................................
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Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Here, EH!!!
Posts: 1,337
I can control it this time.
Nothing Bad will happen.
I can drink normally this time.
I will have just 2 or 3 drinks, 6 maximum.
I will have fun this time.
I will meet the hottest chics at the bar.
I will get laid by picking up women at the bar.
Everyone drinks.
Everyone is having fun att the bar drinking, why not me.
Poor me poor me pour me another drink.
AA is not for me.
AA is for whiners.
AA is a cult.
AA is for losers of life.
I am not an alcoholic.
I can take it or leave it.
I will change my drink to beer or wine rather then vodka.
Drinking is apart of society.
I will not end up back in prison this time.
I will not drive my car drunk and crash into a family going home and killing everyone inside.
I am different.
I deserve a drink because this or that happened, good or bad, or nothing at all.
If you were like me you would drink too.
I drank over nothing. People look at me, I drink. I breath air, I drink.
The list goes on and on to infinitum.
Nothing Bad will happen.
I can drink normally this time.
I will have just 2 or 3 drinks, 6 maximum.
I will have fun this time.
I will meet the hottest chics at the bar.
I will get laid by picking up women at the bar.
Everyone drinks.
Everyone is having fun att the bar drinking, why not me.
Poor me poor me pour me another drink.
AA is not for me.
AA is for whiners.
AA is a cult.
AA is for losers of life.
I am not an alcoholic.
I can take it or leave it.
I will change my drink to beer or wine rather then vodka.
Drinking is apart of society.
I will not end up back in prison this time.
I will not drive my car drunk and crash into a family going home and killing everyone inside.
I am different.
I deserve a drink because this or that happened, good or bad, or nothing at all.
If you were like me you would drink too.
I drank over nothing. People look at me, I drink. I breath air, I drink.
The list goes on and on to infinitum.
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Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Houston, TX
Posts: 2,126
1) A big lie you told yourself while drinking; or
2) Something you believe to be true today?
If '1' then okey-dokey.
If '2' I guess I'll have to disagree with you; especially in regards to "Thats a fact." That may be your opinion, but it certainly is not a universal fact; it may be suicide for some, but not for all; and not all who continue to drink die a miserable alcoholic death.
What I have written here are also not facts, but they're also not just my opinions; they are, however, from my experience.
(o:
NoelleR
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That drinking alcoholically would not necessarily lead to becoming an alcoholic. I knew I drank to get get drunk, I tried to convince myself that I was somehow different and that I could stop or regain control whenever I decided to. The lie was the rationalization that I was different or special. Add to that all the daily lies, excuses, reasons to myself and others. At some point no amount of lying can provide enough cover to ignore the addiction.
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