Trying to come back
Member
Thread Starter
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Gatineau, QC, CA
Posts: 5,100
Trying to come back
Hi everyone,
I was on this site and was sober for months. The original friends I had made seem to have disappeared. I feel really shamed to have failed. I don't know what to say. But I know I have death waiting if I don't address this. Hope I can make new friends, I have not been trough the withdrawals yet. I know the drill, no doctor recommendations on this site. Etc.
Anyway, I feel out of place, like a failure.
I was on this site and was sober for months. The original friends I had made seem to have disappeared. I feel really shamed to have failed. I don't know what to say. But I know I have death waiting if I don't address this. Hope I can make new friends, I have not been trough the withdrawals yet. I know the drill, no doctor recommendations on this site. Etc.
Anyway, I feel out of place, like a failure.
Are you kidding me Patman. I'm here. Been here a few months. Not sober but have a plan. Welcome back. I don't know you but all the sudden so glad to meet you!! Doctors? Well I would at least find out if you are healthy enough for a home detox. I went to the doctor, I wasn't well enough to detox alone. Then I fell off the boat and am now drowning. But again, I have a plan. Good to see you.
Member
Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: NE Wisconsin USA
Posts: 6,223
Thepatman
Draw off the energy from your Ali quote for sure.
Like you I have had my relapses.
Just never give up...alcoholism/addiction is treatable.
We do recover and get well.
I wish you the best.
Pulling for you!
Draw off the energy from your Ali quote for sure.
Like you I have had my relapses.
Just never give up...alcoholism/addiction is treatable.
We do recover and get well.
I wish you the best.
Pulling for you!
Welcome back thepatman
Shame can be debilitating - I think it's kinda of pointless to be stuck on past events we can't change anyway.
Today's the thing - do you have a plan? any ideas on how to get and stay sober now?
D
Shame can be debilitating - I think it's kinda of pointless to be stuck on past events we can't change anyway.
Today's the thing - do you have a plan? any ideas on how to get and stay sober now?
D
Member
Thread Starter
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Gatineau, QC, CA
Posts: 5,100
Thank you all ;-)
You bring me strength. More then you can imagine. I did this before, I know the pain, the nightmares, the hot cold sweats. I will cut down to avoid the full blown detox.
Anyway, I am going for it.
You bring me strength. More then you can imagine. I did this before, I know the pain, the nightmares, the hot cold sweats. I will cut down to avoid the full blown detox.
Anyway, I am going for it.
Hi everyone, I was on this site and was sober for months. The original friends I had made seem to have disappeared. I feel really shamed to have failed. I don't know what to say. But I know I have death waiting if I don't address this. Hope I can make new friends, I have not been trough the withdrawals yet. I know the drill, no doctor recommendations on this site. Etc. Anyway, I feel out of place, like a failure.
patman, i remember you.
take what's here today,, go with that.
the recommendation of seeing a doc sounds good, even if you don't want to
and Raider: seeing your smiling face and hearing you say twice that you have a plan while you're drowning...what's stopping you from putting the plan into action instead of drowning?
take what's here today,, go with that.
the recommendation of seeing a doc sounds good, even if you don't want to
and Raider: seeing your smiling face and hearing you say twice that you have a plan while you're drowning...what's stopping you from putting the plan into action instead of drowning?
Hi everyone,
I was on this site and was sober for months. The original friends I had made seem to have disappeared. I feel really shamed to have failed. I don't know what to say. But I know I have death waiting if I don't address this. Hope I can make new friends, I have not been trough the withdrawals yet. I know the drill, no doctor recommendations on this site. Etc.
Anyway, I feel out of place, like a failure.
I was on this site and was sober for months. The original friends I had made seem to have disappeared. I feel really shamed to have failed. I don't know what to say. But I know I have death waiting if I don't address this. Hope I can make new friends, I have not been trough the withdrawals yet. I know the drill, no doctor recommendations on this site. Etc.
Anyway, I feel out of place, like a failure.
You probably hear people saying this but it's so true- you don't fail when you fall, only when you don't get up again. Hey, you had some good time built up. You had to have learned some things that will serve you well when you get back up on that horse. What happened? Did you get cocky and think you could moderate? Next time you'll know better! Did you 'forget' how bad it felt to always be hungover or drunk? Now you know, and you won't soon forget the feeling.
There's no shame in having tripped up. Sometimes it better to try something difficult and fall short of the mark than to meekly wander through life never trying. If you never fail then you're probably not trying anything worth doing.
I hope you stick around give it another shot. You've had a taste of sobriety, and nothing less is gonna satisfy you now!
BSober1
Join Date: Sep 2013
Location: Stafford, VA
Posts: 16
HI Patman, I am new here, but would love to be a new friend...Death for me would take a while, but definitely would be a result if I keep drinking... So, sober now for a few days and feeling awesome today! I am living in the moment now a days and this moment rocks! Nice to meet you and see you soon!!!
Member
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: Getting to where I want to be
Posts: 502
Hi patman, I remember you. I joined back in 2012 also and, unfortunately, have relapsed a few times. I'm sober now 129 days. I figure as long as we really want sobriety and keep getting back up when we fall, we are not failures.
The detox and withdrawals will be tough; they were brutal for me but after they're over, you never have to feel like that again. You've done it before, now suck it up and do it again. I'm here for you if you need someone who gets it.
The detox and withdrawals will be tough; they were brutal for me but after they're over, you never have to feel like that again. You've done it before, now suck it up and do it again. I'm here for you if you need someone who gets it.
Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)