my first two amends
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my first two amends
I saw my sponsor today and went over the first two people that I am supposed to make amends to an old friend and my mom. Im scared about contacting my old friend I don't know if she even wants to hear from me and she may yell at me. My mom I am not so nervous about she is supportive of me.
My sister-in-law will be the hardest one to make amends to and second my cousin and then my dads friend.
My sister-in-law will be the hardest one to make amends to and second my cousin and then my dads friend.
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Hey, be brave. You will be surprised how well it can turn out. I've found that some if the people I've contacted as part of step 9 have really appreciated the gesture.
They may still be hurting but the corners been turned. If I get yelled at or threatened that's ok as long as I have been sincere and done what I can and no more.
They may still be hurting but the corners been turned. If I get yelled at or threatened that's ok as long as I have been sincere and done what I can and no more.
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Originally Posted by Anoronha 
I saw my sponsor today and went over the first two people that I am supposed to make amends to an old friend and my mom. Im scared about contacting my old friend I don't know if she even wants to hear from me and she may yell at me. My mom I am not so nervous about she is supportive of me.
My sister-in-law will be the hardest one to make amends to and second my cousin and then my dads friend.
My sister-in-law will be the hardest one to make amends to and second my cousin and then my dads friend.
Most of my old adversaries have passed on, or I have completely lost track/
Do it very slowly with my wife, very slowly, and utilise the cop out clause where it seems right to do so.
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