Christmas Gifts
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Christmas Gifts
I was on day 4 yesterday and over the roughest part of the withdrawal when a colleague at work gave me a present for Christmas. It was wrapped but I knew it was booze. I accepted it graciously and brought it home. For the past 4 days I have been driving home via a different route whereby I don't pass a liquor store. This night I drove past the liquor store because I knew the thing that I wanted was in my back seat so I wouldn't be bothered with the liquor store anyway.
Turns out when I got home to my family I put the "gift" in the cupboard and that is where it remains and I got to see day 5. I think I will regift it.
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Turns out when I got home to my family I put the "gift" in the cupboard and that is where it remains and I got to see day 5. I think I will regift it.
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Once I saw all this, it was a matter of boundaries for me. And it really helps me in my day to day.
I work in a place that would not give that as a gift, and my friends and family all know I don't drink. However, I can understand the fear of seeming rude in refusing the gift. To be honest, if I were faced with that, I would like to think I would say,
Thank you, but I can't accept this. I don't drink" OR say "Thank you" and then deposit it in a garbage bin on my way home from work. (So as not to be seen throwing away their gift...) I know me, and it wouldn't be a good idea to have it in the house (or car) in the plans for re gifting. It's just too much temptation for little ol me
Thank you, but I can't accept this. I don't drink" OR say "Thank you" and then deposit it in a garbage bin on my way home from work. (So as not to be seen throwing away their gift...) I know me, and it wouldn't be a good idea to have it in the house (or car) in the plans for re gifting. It's just too much temptation for little ol me
Every year we have a holiday party with a bartender and receive many bottles of wine. We both are non drinkers, but like for our guests to enjoy themselves and the normal drinker after a few drinks is actually more fun to be around. I have no problem accepting it and giving it to someone else, just like I do when I get cakes and desserts I won't eat, or clothes I will never wear. No need to be rude, impolite or get resentful at this guesture. Just people trying to be nice and thougthful, it is not their fault we cannot drink it. As non-drinkers we need to learn how to coexist with the rest of the world.
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