Stress Can Lead To Relapse.....
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Stress Can Lead To Relapse.....
In AA they say that resentments are the #1 offender to relapse. I think stress also can lead to picking up. I had a stressful day & although I don't want a drink (which is good) I want to scream. I had a terrible encounter at the pharmacy trying to transfer a prescription & then had to deal w/ aggressive bill collector who won't take NO for an answer. The only money I have is going to be going to an dui/criminal attorney & the rest to start the bankruptcy process. Sometimes I wonder why I bother to even stay sober but I want to give it a chance.
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Boy am I finally getting that through this head of mine that the incredible amount of stress I am under right now and have been for sometime isn't as bad a drinking to numb it. I am trying to hang on to the inkling of hope I have left. Going back to AA. Determined to give it my all and give it to God. God help me.
Justfor1 - I can definitely relate to how you're feeling right now. It's so challenging to handle the wreckage caused by our drinking days. I had the dui's and bankruptcy to deal with, as well as relationship issues and health problems - caused by my addiction. It all turned out fine, though - and I'm so glad I didn't pour more alcohol on the whole mess. It gets us nowhere - just pushes us further back in the hole.
You are going to come out of this a new person, stronger and better than ever. You are bothering to stay sober because in your heart, you know going back to that old life is never going to solve anything - and can never lead to happiness or fulfillment. Be proud of yourself for staying strong and keeping on your journey to a sober/happy/free life.
keepinghope12 - Hello to you! We're so happy to have you as part of the family.
You are going to come out of this a new person, stronger and better than ever. You are bothering to stay sober because in your heart, you know going back to that old life is never going to solve anything - and can never lead to happiness or fulfillment. Be proud of yourself for staying strong and keeping on your journey to a sober/happy/free life.
keepinghope12 - Hello to you! We're so happy to have you as part of the family.
In AA they say that resentments are the #1 offender to relapse. I think stress also can lead to picking up. I had a stressful day & although I don't want a drink (which is good) I want to scream. I had a terrible encounter at the pharmacy trying to transfer a prescription & then had to deal w/ aggressive bill collector who won't take NO for an answer. The only money I have is going to be going to an dui/criminal attorney & the rest to start the bankruptcy process. Sometimes I wonder why I bother to even stay sober but I want to give it a chance.
so heres what i see: maybe yu had expectations that the scrpt transfer was just gonna be nice and smooth? and then it didnt go as ya thought? if thats the case, we can make plans but we cant plan the outcome.
patience is important and it isnt about what we are doin while we wait or have to make adjustments to our plans. its about what we are thinking.
you are staying sober because the alternative is drinking, which will get ya locked up or covered up.
keep on trudgin!! it'll get better!
I think lots of things can lead to relapse...but only until we gain the tools to deal with those kinds of challenges in more positive ways.
Whats coping methods do you have for stressy days J41?
how do you relax and unwind?
do you have people to call?
do you have a plan for stress?
I think those are the kinds of things we all need to consider don't you reckon?
every one of us will face trigger situations, sometimes quite often - but relapse is not inevitable, not if we have a recovery plan and a strategy for dealing with the rough parts of the life road
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Whats coping methods do you have for stressy days J41?
how do you relax and unwind?
do you have people to call?
do you have a plan for stress?
I think those are the kinds of things we all need to consider don't you reckon?
every one of us will face trigger situations, sometimes quite often - but relapse is not inevitable, not if we have a recovery plan and a strategy for dealing with the rough parts of the life road
D
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Thanks everyone. It just seems like the more we drank, the more stress we put upon ourselves. I was trapped in a very vicious cycle for years. Since, Sept of 2011 I have had 1 day of drinking.
I can cope somewhat better now yet still get extremely frustrated.
I can cope somewhat better now yet still get extremely frustrated.
"It is a design for living that works in rough going."
(page 15)
In AA they say that resentments are the #1 offender to relapse. I think stress also can lead to picking up. I had a stressful day & although I don't want a drink (which is good) I want to scream. I had a terrible encounter at the pharmacy trying to transfer a prescription & then had to deal w/ aggressive bill collector who won't take NO for an answer. The only money I have is going to be going to an dui/criminal attorney & the rest to start the bankruptcy process. Sometimes I wonder why I bother to even stay sober but I want to give it a chance.
Sure, things happen and we get upset. Understandable. After they've happened though......if they're still ON me, it's resentment.
Have you considered doing inventory on them, the 4 columns, looking at it/them from a completely different angle, 5th stepping it, doing 6-9 as well?
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