Pedro123

I have taken on a new component to my job which will take me abroad on business fairly often, mostly to China, India, Southeast Asia, some in Latin America and an occasional Eastern Europe trip. My business will not be dealing with external customers, but will often have me dining with employees from our company.

I'm heading to China today and then India in the not too distant future. Trying to plan for my continued sobriety and am a little worried about turing down drinks that might be seen as culturally rude if not done the right way.

Most of the people I'll be with will be somewhat 'Westernized', and I'm not likely to be in any deeply traditional locations...mostly large cities in Western style hotels, etc.

Any hints or tips on how to not seem rude or unappreciative of cultural norms in particular for China since I'm leaving today (and any of the other countries/areas listed above)?

I made it through my first trip without drinking while in Europe last week (have not had anything since Thanksgiving). Got lots of looks and questions when I said I wasn't drinking. Important to note that I'm yet telling work colleagues of my problem. I'm in a sort of high level position in my company and I'm just not ready for everyone to be talking behind my back about my problem yet. I used the old 'trying to lose a few more pounds and stay healthier' bit. Then I was questioned by my neighbor at the table as I ate anything that any fat content in it whatsoever (the glass of wine you turned down has more calories than the.... you are eating). I think I need a new excuse....

Thanks!

Orbea

You can always say that you are on some meds that have severe adverse reactions to alcohol and you're under strict doctor's orders. There are plenty of meds that tell you not to drink.

sugarbear1

I just searched "business etiquette for not drinking alcohol" and most sites agreed that it is acceptable in many countries and one of the best practices for any business person.... do a search!

recoverywfaith

My suggestion would be to always, have a drink of tea, water any kind of drink with you (other than alcohol) and just simply state you do not drink. And, after your business meetings re-connect with like minded people to help you to never forget about this disease...such as your doing here by sharing. Sounds intersting...good luck on your business endeavors.

jimihendrix

I had the exact same issue.

In my first month, had a set of important business dinners in China with customers and other business associates.

Just say you're on meds. They won't care.

In toasting situations - let them pour the drink, clink the glass, then just leave it there.

I was afraid it was going to be an issue, but it ended up being a non-issue.

least

i don't see why "no thanks, i don't drink" isn't good enough. if they press the issue you can just repeat it "no thank you, i don't drink"

anytime i've been asked why i don't drink, i just say i don't like how it makes me feel.