catmilkyo

This.

It's really hard to obtain or give consent when you're hammered -
Can you honestly say this person is in a clear enough mind to consent to sex? Especially if you don't know them well?
Had too many conversations with guys who wonder or feel guilty about intoxicated sexual encounters - and as a woman I unfortunately know how it feels to not know if I wanted that or not because of how drunk I was.

Hook-up, party culture is really sexually unsafe when you think about it.

whynot4856

Drunk people are not very sexy.

ElegantlyWasted

"and when she does its 10 double vodkas down the hatch and she's a flirtacious mess who is pretty much anyones.. " Sounds like mine. She wears high heels and accidentally steps on my feet. It hurts. I have when I've been sloshed, but in terms of general principle and practice, no. I agree, It definitely is not SEXY.

TwelveSteps

Definitely depends on the circumstances. My BF rarely drinks but if we go to a party and he has a few, am I going to refrain from having sex with him later? Saying no for that reason wouldn't even cross my mind. But if it were a new person and they were hammered? Probably not, but that would be more about the fact that if we had just started dating and he decided to get wasted, it would make me question whether we should keep dating or maybe cutting him loose before we got intimate might be a better move.

GG

freshstart57

I don't think there is such a thing as no strings sex with an ex lover, drunk or sober.

NYCDoglvr

I've invested a great deal of time and hard work in staying sober. Being in the presence of a drunk puts my sobriety in jeopardy. Pass.

penny74

l most likely would.