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Old 09-21-2011, 05:07 AM
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Hi all,

I found out this morning that a family member was found dead.

He had struggled with alcohol for a long time yet had made remarkable progress. When I last saw him he looked absolutely fantastic.

While I don't subscribe to labelling, he was what society would have classed as a chronic alcoholic in that he could easily sink a bottle of vodka before 9AM during his drinking periods.

Despite that fact he was in his 30s, alcohol had already caused him a heart attack. When he drank he would wallow in his own body fluids.

Until you see the inside of a coffin a brain chemically dependent on alcohol will stop at nothing to satisfy its insatiable appetite.

You probably don't need me to tell you that you don't want to die prematurely, robbing yourself of your dignity, doing something you loathe (and makes you loathe yourself) and leaving your family minus one less member.

If you're sober today, you have achieved a wonderful thing. If you aren't, take action now. It does not need to end this way for you.

All the best everyone.
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Old 09-21-2011, 05:51 AM
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I am sorry for your loss kanamit. Prayers to your family.
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Old 09-21-2011, 06:05 AM
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So sorry for your loss.
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Old 09-21-2011, 07:00 AM
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(((Kanamit))) - I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and everyone who loved him.

Hugs and prayers,

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Im sorry for your loss.
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Old 09-21-2011, 08:50 AM
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I'm sorry, too, kanamit. Thank you for the post.
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Old 09-21-2011, 09:34 AM
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Sad to know another lost his battle....prayers for comfort going out to all who love this man.
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Old 09-21-2011, 10:26 AM
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thought and prayers are with you and your family..
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Old 09-21-2011, 11:29 AM
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My thoughts are with you... so sorry that this happened. But at the same time, thank you for sharing this news--it is a strong, bitter dose of reality for many of us who are struggling with alcoholism.
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Old 09-22-2011, 06:13 PM
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Sorry for your loss and thank you so much for saying just what I needed to hear
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Old 09-22-2011, 06:27 PM
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Old 09-23-2011, 01:25 PM
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My most sincere prayers for you and your family.

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Old 09-23-2011, 02:10 PM
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I'm sorry for your loss kanamit.

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Old 09-23-2011, 02:57 PM
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Praying for you & your family, kanamit. Thank you for the valuable reminder. I know that's where I'm headed if I pick up again. You're right - it doesn't need to end this way.
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