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Old 12-09-2010, 09:27 AM
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My Nephew is on a Respirator in CCU

He wasn't letting on how much he has been drinking. He had visitation with his 4-year-old son on Sunday and didn't want to drink so he quit for that day.

He went into such horrible withdrawals and was projectile vomiting and was in tremendous pain.

His mom took him to the ER - his pancreas is huge and he had trouble breathing. They put him in a medically-induced coma and put him on a respirator. His liver enzymes are off the chart. He'll be on the respirator for another week, and if he survives this, he will spend the next 30 days in the hospital.

He won't remember any of this, so him mom took a picture of him on the respirator. If he lives through this, she wants him to see just a portion of what has happened.

He is 32 years old.

Please son't try to stop drinking on your own - it's so dangerous.
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Old 12-09-2010, 09:29 AM
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I'm so sorry and I hope that your nephew survives.

Thanks for the reminder of how deadly this disease is.
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Old 12-09-2010, 09:47 AM
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Janey Mack! This disease sucks!

My thoughts and prayers are with your nephew and family.
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Sorry to hear that Nacona....my prayers go out to you and your family.
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I'm sorry for this and will keep him in my prayers
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Old 12-09-2010, 10:21 AM
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Damn, how much does one have to drink to end up that way? It must be an enormous amount...
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Old 12-09-2010, 10:31 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that nacona... I will hope along with everyone that he recovers.
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Old 12-09-2010, 10:41 AM
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Damn, how much does one have to drink to end up that way? It must be an enormous amount...
We don't know how much he has been drinking -- but, get this....he went to work every day (he works for his father, so we KNOW he made it to work everyday) and went to school one night a week. He couldn't be reached at night though....he must have been maintaining himself during the day at work by taking shots here and there and then drinking heavily on the nights he wasn't at school.

Thank you all for your prayers.
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Old 12-09-2010, 10:56 AM
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I wish well for your nephews return to health. So dreadful for him to be that young and have such a serious alcohol related condition like that.
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Old 12-09-2010, 12:18 PM
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Prayers for you. your nephew and your family Nacona.

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Prayers for you and your nephew....I hope he survives and gets sober. Please keep us posted.
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Prayers for your nephew, you and your entire family. Jomey
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Old 12-09-2010, 05:48 PM
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He now has pneumonia and blood clots in his legs - ALL of this because of drinking alcohol.....God what a f'd up disease this is.

His father's side of the family does not believe that alcoholism is a disease and that he should have power, choice and control over alcohol....so needless to say there is a lot of fighting going on at the hospital....what a mess.

I told them that he is in a medically-induced coma and he can hear what you are saying, but that doesn't stop the egos from going on and on.

People make me sick - I want to live in a cave.
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Prayers to you, your nephew and family.
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Old 12-09-2010, 06:25 PM
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My thoughts and prayers are with you, your family and your nephew.
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So sorry to hear this, nacona. Hugs and prayers. This is truly a deadly disease. I hope things turn around for your nephew soon.
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Old 12-10-2010, 01:46 AM
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I'm so sorry that this situation is made harder by relatives fighting.
I hope he survives this and gets a chance to recover. Sending everyone involved some positive thoughts and energy. Hugs,
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Old 12-10-2010, 02:07 AM
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I'm sorry to hear this and I do hope he lives through this for your, your family, his son and his sake. This is a truly deadly disease that people sometimes don't take seriously. I'll keep him in my prayers.
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