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Old 12-13-2008, 10:34 PM
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New saying hello

Hey Im new just wanting to say hi and wonder if i could be part of the forum?

I want to stop drinking but its not been easy.

Im twenty two and been a binge drinker for a few years now.. Im thinking about 4 years. I don't know how much i used to drink because i never cared enough to count. However recently i can say i binge about once a week. I've been having problems quitting. Its become a problem and I think im lucky that it has not cost me more then it has. At least I hope not.

Im OCD (light hypochondria) and drinking is one of the only drugs that has worked to calm anxiety however its also a problem. I drink because i get worried about my health (ironically) or i get stressed out about my life. Lately im worried that my drinking habbits over the past 4 years have been enough to cause permanent damage to my liver ect. So ironically the extra stress has been making laying of the booze even harder.

Thought maybe if i joined up on a forum with support It might make things easier to manage. Hope its not a problem. Gosh i wish i realised how dangerous alcohol is sooner.

Thanks in advance and if anyone wants to chat i have quite a bit of free time lately.
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Old 12-13-2008, 11:07 PM
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Welcome Snoug. I hope you get something out of these forums. I hear you when you say you drink cause it eases the anxiety of worrying all the time. But then you end up worrying about your drinking and it's a vicous circle.
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Old 12-13-2008, 11:14 PM
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Hi, Welcome Snoug!
I cant be huge on advice to you, i know its hard being a young drinker, im 25 myself. Its all around us, in our jobs, everywhere.
So with that, im more seeking advice here than giving it but im more than happy to learn along side you. I learn things on this site ever day.

Only thing I'd advise is to stop dringing because even tho youre a binge drinker, those binges will probably get worse and more frequent- and then youre looking at having withdrawal symptom when you stop - really bad ones (read the sticky at the top of the forum about "what we did"). Its something you never wanna ever go through again.
Maybe get an Anxiety Rx for your OCD, dont abuse it, and stop the drinking.

I too didnt think much about long term effects but now, after my 2nd (AND LAST) home self detox (with a dr. visit) i am starting to worry about what my liver looks like. or brain. Or if drinking has ADDED to my pre-existing axiety.

anywhoo.. welcome! its pretty late on here right now im sure tomorrow the welcome wagon will pick this post right on up.
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Old 12-13-2008, 11:59 PM
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It's great to see a young new member who wants to quit
Yes! you can!

It would be wise to have an honest talk with your doctor
who then can do a blood test for liver enzymes count.
Then you can know what you are dealing with for certain.

Welcome to SR and our Alcoholism Forum...
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Old 12-14-2008, 05:50 AM
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Welcome Snoug!
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Old 12-14-2008, 08:38 AM
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Of course you are welcome here Snoug! I'm now 54 and I WISH I had started this journey when I was your age! Kudos to you!
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Old 12-14-2008, 08:38 AM
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Snoug, welcome to SR!

I also drank because of anxiety and worry. At 19 I jumped headfirst into a difficult program of study at a fairly prestigious school... and started drinking on an almost-daily basis. At 20 I dropped out because I was failing all my classes (because of drinking). At 21 I was hospitalized for a suicide attempt. And, like you, at 22 I decided I'd had enough. I'm now 23, almost a year sober, and going back to school next month! And I've been pleasantly surprised to find that the drinking caused most of the anxiety, not vice versa. The best advice I can give you is see your doctor and be completely honest about the situation. My detox was uneventful, but it can be dangerous. Your doc isn't going to judge you (that was my worry), they see worse than us every day.

Tl;dr, I know. Feel free to drop me a line on SR or AIM if you want to talk.

How lucky we are that we can set our lives back on track while we're still young!
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Old 12-14-2008, 08:58 AM
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Welcome to a wonderful supportive place. My friends here have had a huge role in my staying sober for the last five months. I was a chronic relapser, so if I can get and stay sober, so can you!

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Old 12-14-2008, 10:37 AM
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Welcome Snoug,
I think you will find some answers here
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