HideorSeek

Hi All!

I read a thread on this forum that had a great post about boundaries. There was a list of about 10 traits (pleasing others, that sort of category). Now I can't find it. Can anyone help? Thanks in advance!

miss communicat

Hi

Its probably over in the Friends and Family of Alcoholics forum, which has some stickies on the top all about Codependency issues, such as healthy boundaries and people pleasing etc.

CarolD

Hi.....I found this on Friends & Family of Alcoholics.
It was not here on Alcoholism.

Hope this is what you are looking for...

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...ouched-me.html

If not.......it's quite good anyway

HideorSeek

Thanks you two, but neither is "it". The thread I am referring to was quite long, posted over several posts (by the same poster). The writing style was something like" "People Pleasing"...If you have issues with this boundary, then you probably do/say/act...in order to establish stronger boundaries in this area, you need to..."

Anyways, I'll keep looking, but thank you (and Carol, that was a good one)!

miss communicat

This thread is one of the best!

Hooks which keep you boundary-less in relationships

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...tionships.html (Hooks which keep you boundary-less in relationships)

HideorSeek

Thanks! But somehow, when I click on the link, it brings me back to the SR main forum page! Aargh, because I think that this is it! Thank you so much!:ghug3

HideorSeek

MS...can you tell me which forum and the thread name? Whoever the poster was (about boundaries) was not the initiator of the thread as I recall. I WILL find this with a "little help from my friends"! Hugs!

miss communicat

it is on page 10 of the Friends and Family of Alcoholics forum and the original poster is Morning Glory.

HideorSeek

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