In toxic situation with mother
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In toxic situation with mother
Hi all - me and my mother are both acoa - me because of my grandparents. I recently moved in with her because I was looking at homelessness (my partner of 30 years died). After moving in, I've realized that she is a narcissist. control freak. And now my mother and I are down to measuring the dish soap so that we both know how much I use when I wash the dishes. She accused me of u sing 1/3 of a 54 ounce bottle, every time I wash dishes, and she kept it up even after I said no I don't do that. She had to bring in how much she's done for me recently. Really? How vindictive. She wants me to sharply limit using toilet paper. Really sharply - and I have health issues. I have no funds. She told me not to worry about money because she has money, but now she is acting like this. She does have money. When the electric bill came, she screamed, and now there is no heat in the house. I get to use a space heater in my room, but the rest of the house is really cold. She wanted me to not dry my hospital bed pads that I use for my dog because she didn't like the chemical smell. And I am already hiding my personal trash in the bathroom so she won't go looking through it. I am afraid to leave my dog alone in the house because I'm afraid she will do something. Her house is in a small village, 25 miles f rom the nearest city.
I didn't talk to her for 30 years, and she told me that she changed. I took the chance because I was looking at homelessness anyway. She did not change. Thoughts appreciated.
I didn't talk to her for 30 years, and she told me that she changed. I took the chance because I was looking at homelessness anyway. She did not change. Thoughts appreciated.
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